Attraction through expectation
If you have been in a relationship where the role you played was fixed and this fixed role enhanced your sense of self worth, then you will keep attracting exactly these kinds of people. For example, if your mother misbehaves with you and you have been facing this for years and years without much reaction, all is good thus far. But if by doing so you feel happy and proud of yourself and your sense of self worth increases, then you will keep attracting abusers in your life, because the very energy you project is one that needs another kind of energy to match up.
the solution is to not create any rigid self images.
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If you are aware of what you are, without trying to change it, then what you are undergoes a transformation ~ Krishnamurti
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