Falling out of love or with wrong avatar

[lostsoul13]

I feel like I won’t attract the right person because I’m in the wrong avatar— searching for commitment while commitment is like hay stack—
Feel like I won’t attract my flame while In my acccount I have other commitments ( even though a month ago I got up in a different avartar it feel through and I was transported and transferred back) while things are taking momentum; I’m wondering about falling out of love here while transferring avartar is a nightmare( if need my flame to be committed in a similar scenario) I haven’t heared from my flame since the transfers...

Do you feel ok with your avartar?

Not sure what you mean by Avatar.... traditionally, the descent of a god into you?

In Vodou, we have a "maître tête" (master of the head) which is a representation of your highest principles personified in some way. (Mine is Aida Wedo, a female Vodou Lwa, maybe with a touch of Ezuli).

Depending what you mean by Avatar, you're saying that whatever descended into you; or what you ultimately believe in; or your highest principles don't match the you as you see yourself.

I doubt it's about highest principles (though many people - you'll find them here too - draw up principles they aspire to but are unable to achieve - for various reasons) but at least they bother to think about them.

So you need to tell us how you acquired your Avatar, if Avatar you mean, and decide whether it's worth re-thinking it in terms of what embodies your highest principles or what "rules your head" (for want of a better term). A good starting point would be to look at what the various roman and greek gods mean (unless you're from a Hindu culture for which I can suggest nothing...sorry). You don't have to adopt the ideology attached to these gods but it may help developing honest and achievable "ruling principles". Or you could just ponder on people's very best characteristics and set up something for yourself. There's no real "good or bad" (they're relative) but - what's right for you.

It's important to think of these things in terms of yourself so you can gradually run your life according to them.
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In any event if what rules your being is at loggerheads with who you believe you are, you have trouble.
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[Miriah]

Im trying to be okay with it but ive got my work cut out for me I suppose.

btw, he/she is probably implying life is a simulation or online video game, which I dont disagree with, exactly.
i do think its that to some extent. but im in the realm of nigh solipsism about it. so for me it tends to be mostly singleplayer with maybe some minor multiplayer capabilities or advanced ais.
i think its a dream.
i think its god dreams manifested so strongly they feel solid and we forget ourselves in it.

i have seen my evil but beloved doppleganger reflection, my straight up evil doppleganger reflection, my mirror image of sorts, a clearly false reflection, and many reflections that are not clearly false.

i have seen them pop up in others.
sometimes sentimental feelings do wonders to keep things consistent.altbough whether thats a good thing or not is another thing entirely.
just hone in on one you like and/or feel drawn to if youre forced to start over.
as for me, im going to stay safely detached.

i havent switched avatars but its not for lack of trying.