Cao ljepotice!
Ja sam iz Sombora, grad na severu Srbije...
Dobro sam, prisutan u sadasnjosti
Thanks for the advice, I wish I'd read it sooner... It's been 20 days since you answered, sorry for the late reply. Meanhwhile, lots of things happened and I came to some conclusions :)
She means to me a lot more like a friend than like a lover. So we're on friendly basis, with ocasional kissing/hugging when one of us feels like it. Don't know if it's good or not... But it's ok for now :)
And I'm totally trying to apply Fromm's view of love (which I think is correct) to this situation... Did you read "The art of loving"?
It's actually hard to define if what you feel for is friendship or love... And that can be confusing...
Of course, forgiving is the best way. Especially because you feel better... Hatred and anger only poisons you... So it's pointless, but it's hard to understand the meaning of forgivness... At least that's the situation on the Balcans...
Budi dobro :))