On Conception and Abortions --- From A Spiritist Perspective

[BigJohn]

Originally Posted by Native spirit

I To have been through the trauma of loosing babies I had four children then I had a sudden unexpected pain which took the hospital four weeks to diagnose , they kept saying everything was fine. so with my husband in tow I told the consultant straight if anything was to happen to me, my husband was to sue the consultant and the hospital.
A young Irish locum came on the ward said you look well after your op when I told him I hadn't had the Laparoscopy he went mad.
I was in theatre that afternoon.
when I came round I had tubes coming from everywhere filled with blood,
I had an ectopic pregnancy I was 14 weeks the baby was in my tubes and I nearly didn't make it.i was one minute away from death,
I was to blame for having a high pain barrier according to the consultant so I asked him if he was qualified he said of course, so I told him to go back into training because his bedside manner was not on.
12 months later I had miscaried she was 13 weeks,
I went on to have my last child 12 months later. they told me all my organs were sticking together because of the ectopic not to have any more.i had no intention of having anymore,
When my daughter was Born I said my micarage was not meant to be.
when she was two she said to me I used to hear your music when I was growing in your stomach and I was born once before but had to go back but now I have come back again


Namaste

Your last sentence you wrote was so warming to read...... Amazing!

Originally Posted by Native spirit

I To have been through the trauma of loosing babies I had four children then I had a sudden unexpected pain which took the hospital four weeks to diagnose , they kept saying everything was fine. so with my husband in tow I told the consultant straight if anything was to happen to me, my husband was to sue the consultant and the hospital.
A young Irish locum came on the ward said you look well after your op when I told him I hadn't had the Laparoscopy he went mad.
I was in theatre that afternoon.
when I came round I had tubes coming from everywhere filled with blood,
I had an ectopic pregnancy I was 14 weeks the baby was in my tubes and I nearly didn't make it.i was one minute away from death,
I was to blame for having a high pain barrier according to the consultant so I asked him if he was qualified he said of course, so I told him to go back into training because his bedside manner was not on.
12 months later I had miscaried she was 13 weeks,
I went on to have my last child 12 months later. they told me all my organs were sticking together because of the ectopic not to have any more.i had no intention of having anymore,
When my daughter was Born I said my micarage was not meant to be.
when she was two she said to me I used to hear your music when I was growing in your stomach and I was born once before but had to go back but now I have come back again


Namaste

And how many times Native spirit have you made me cry?!!! I am so sorry for the pain of what you experienced. But your beautiful little girl says it all . How amazing is she? How amazing are you?.. blessed be to both of you and Thank you...

[BigJohn]

Originally Posted by Elfin

And how many times Native spirit have you made me cry?!!! I am so sorry for the pain of what you experienced. But your beautiful little girl says it all . How amazing is she? How amazing are you?.. blessed be to both of you and Thank you...

I am amazed of how blessed some people are........ Truly, we are survivors.

41 years.... That is a long time. 41 years of torment. I wish the surgeon had put me to sleep forever too.

[Native spirit]

Sometimes I think people forget that behind the key board are real people

who we know only by a user name.some are here for company some are here to take part, others come in and just follow the forums. All of that is fine. we all have a part to play. some have easy lives others not so.
But at the end of the day we are All One and we are all in this together.


Namaste

Originally Posted by BigJohn

Your last sentence you wrote was so warming to read...... Amazing!

God, I hold my breath throughout this reading. What a horrible ordeal, but what a touching end :)

[BigJohn]

Originally Posted by Native spirit

Sometimes I think people forget that behind the key board are real people

who we know only by a user name.some are here for company some are here to take part, others come in and just follow the forums. All of that is fine. we all have a part to play. some have easy lives others not so.
But at the end of the day we are All One and we are all in this together.


Namaste

Nicely said.........

[BigJohn]

Originally Posted by Elfin

41 years.... That is a long time. 41 years of torment. I wish the surgeon had put me to sleep forever too.

Elfin, I feel your pain.......

One thing we do not dwell on is that those in spirit do not suffer pain: we suffer. Feel those 4 around you and you may be amazed they have been healing you for some time and have been hoping you will realize they are okay. It is you they want to direct their attention toward.

[BigJohn]

Originally Posted by asearcher

God, I hold my breath throughout this reading. What a horrible ordeal, but what a touching end :)

So much healing has come about because of this thread...............


Step into the circle.......

I hope nobody minds this but i have to return to my question about stress and pregnancy. I experience a miscarriage after a break up and it was stressful for me, but it was before the 3 month, closing in on that, so i did not then see a connection between stress and miscarriage.

then if I am going to jump forward here - i was visiting a relative while being pregnant in a hospital and I found this stressful and after i got premature labors and had to be in hospital myself and thankfully it slowed down.

another time it was incredibly stressful at work and again I was having premature labors so I had to go through the same thing. It could have been coincidental but I still see a connection.

Same thing with a woman who stresses because she really wants to become pregnant and it is not working. No good, that stress...