A bed/restaurant/celebrity/physical pain

Could someone please interpret my crazy dream? It has me dumbfound.

I remember I was seeing this celebrity actually or we were serious, can't remember, but he took me to this new fancy place only I was not too impressed. I thought it was a joke.

the place was that you had reserved a double bed instead of a table. This was apparently high posh so everyone was acting as if this was perfectly normal. Just fancy pansy people around. So we stood in line for about 5 seconds or so and the one greeting us was friendly and professional and seated us to our bed. We were to be given glas of wine in this bed and apparently the rest of the menu. So everyone was sitting up in their beds and being served. And drunk.

I thought I better leave. I was told too we were to spend the night in the double bed. We did not have an actual room. So 2 flies in one then. And I was like no, I don't think so. I ain't sleeping in the bed where I have eat (crumbs) with a bunch of drunk people around me sleeping in the same room. I did not like where this was going. Also I was not sure we were at a stage where I felt comfortable sharing a bed with him.

The celebrity catch up with me as I was leaving to go into an elevator and half joked put his arm around my shoulder so it weight down too much so it kinda began to hurt and directed me back to the weird bed/restaurant place. Back to the friend host I had to sort of lean down a bit because it was actually hurting on the right side on my shoulder and further back in that area as he had not let go. Back in the elevator before he "escorted" me out I had told him it hurt and he acted as if he thought it was a trick of mine to escape again and/or as if it should hurt a little since I deserved it having run away from him. Just weird. When we got back to the bed he let go. I can't remember if I told him that it had hurt or not again or afterwards. I don't think he was that sober at this point. My eyes and the hostess eyes had met for a second and I felt like an entire new me, and not someone I wanted to be. I was careful. I did not trust where I had this celebrity date. We were seated back to the bed. I remember I lifted my cover up on my side. I woke up.

I have this actual physical pain now, felt it as I woke to and has continued where it was in the dream which I normally do not have and don't know how it got there.

I have been hurt before, bruises before from dreams, and now this. But I don't know if the ache is from this real life here finding its way into my dream or if possible a pain from the dream could be created on my real life body?

The celeb was no different in the dream than I guess he has to me come off how he is in real life. Besides from the gesture with his arm weight down on my shoulder like that, keeping me trapped.

I think my plan was to pretend I was asleep til he fell asleep and then go back to the room I had booked, but I remember too that I got a little afraid of him and did not know if that was a good idea anymore. Because of what he did with his arm like that I felt I did not want to be with him no more because of how it made me feel. This is a celeb I have zero interest in in real life.

When I fell back to sleep I dream I was arranging in an old place of mine and got phone calls from him and him asking when I was coming and I said soon, and I looked at my old bed and thought I should not give this place up and that I preferred my old bed, and that the feeling of any adventure with him did not appear to be something of a life style I wanted, but at the same time it was as if I did not want to say anything. During this phone conversation he talked to me more like a friend and me him, as if it was of practical manners. I was packing a few things, but did not have the feeling I wanted to go. So again there was a bed, but my bed was single. There were also toys in plastic bags in the corners and something told me I/or we had accepted this living arrangement in a hurry, that it was in between, but somehow I had become accustomed to it, saw it more as my home. Did not want to give this place up. Out on the street (I/we lived on the second or third floor or so) was the sound of life from people passing by on the streets, and stores open, that made me feel safe.

Weird how I got to dream of a celebrity, I'm thinking perhaps I have been influenced by reading some threads here on the forum.

[JustBe]

Possibly influenced but often it’s how groups move together. Synchronising with similar themes and sameness in the stage of development your in one with others.

It could be something weighing down heavy on your shoulders is a fear you hold that’s playing out to help you overcome it.



Right side is masculine, which is about moving forward, taking charge, stepping up and into things. Taking action.


Sometimes we hold an idolised idea of life where by we think we won’t something better than what we have. Whether it’s conscious or unconscious it can be a knowing feeling that your dissatisfied with life the way it is. Sometimes in our imagined version of our lives, it’s often an escape from what we truly want and need. The weighing down of that desire, soon shows you where you carry it in your body. I suspect it’s in the part of your body in pain when you woke.

So look at the pain now as an opportunity to release this fear deeper. The physical is often the fallout at another level.

Thank you very much JustBe, you got me thinking :)

[Izz]

Yeah it's possible you absorbed certain energies when reading threads on celebrities here

I replied your PM

Yes, I think so. Yes, thank you, I've replied :)