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Old 20-01-2023, 06:50 AM
seigo seigo is offline
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just came to realization that not only am i an empath

i some how got reverse empathy going on in my stuff
song Carole King - Jazzman song comes to mind

Lyrics >., When the jazzman's testifyin' a faithless man believes
He can sing you into paradise or bring you to your knees
It's a gospel kind of feelin', a touch of Georgia slide
A song of pure revival and a style that's sanctified

literally an reverse em-path
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Old 20-01-2023, 02:20 PM
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..... I assumed they would be furious, but they simply said they were open to suggestions. So I gave them some, which were well received. It's a give and take thing for sure.
You're welcome.
How it is received largely depends on how you communicate. In that sense it's better to not wait too long so you express it before you reach the boiling point about an issue and then explode as opposed to calmly conveying something.
Often we don't express how we feel and what we want at all as we haven't been raised to do that, plus -possibly because of how we've been raised- most of us feel awkward and not confident enough to do so.
So we wait and wait and wait until we cannot hold it back any longer.

Feminine communication is best, not just for women, also for men. This can be quite scary & make you nervous, even with people you feel comfortable with, as it means being open & thus vulnerable.
We've learnt to never be vulnerable, to always have walls & shields up to protect ourselves, but in actual fact our true strength lies in being open, transparent and vulnerable!
Logical as without all these masks & walls others can much easier fathom what we need, what we mean, and so on. Life would be so much easier and comfortable, yet few do this.

When able to express via feminine communication others react much better too. They will shift into another vibration, truly listen and really hear what you say, and thus react differently.

Some will not and those are the ones you may not want in your life or spend as little time as possible with. Nothing wrong with them, but it's an indication that the vibrational gap is too big to overcome and they're too stuck in the old 3D, ego & (subconscious) fear, that they cannot resonate with this higher form of vibration yet.
If you hang out with them nonetheless (often) they will lower your vibration.
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Old 20-01-2023, 06:49 PM
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seigo - I love all of Carol King's songs, especially Jazzman. Can you explain more of reverse-empath.
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Old 20-01-2023, 06:57 PM
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We've learnt to never be vulnerable, to always have walls & shields up to protect ourselves, but in actual fact our true strength lies in being open, transparent and vulnerable!

Yes and as women or the "feminine" approach, we tend to take care of other's feeling before our own, sometimes driving ourselves into a bottomless pit all because we're afraid to be open, real, honest and yes, vulnerable. It's only when we love and care for our needs first that we can do this as a whole, high esteem person. That's when we can set healthy boundaries. I have found that I get more respect when I can be assertive and yet gentle and respectful of others.
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Old 21-01-2023, 08:53 AM
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seigo - I love all of Carol King's songs, especially Jazzman.
Can you explain more of reverse-empath.
Hi seigo :) For me, too.
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Old 21-01-2023, 10:22 AM
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Yes and as women or the "feminine" approach, we tend to take care of other's feeling before our own, sometimes driving ourselves into a bottomless pit all because we're afraid to be open, real, honest and yes, vulnerable.
I wasn't talking about any approach, but about communication. Feminine communication.
That is assertive as it is open, honest, gentle but firm, calm and respectful, both to yourself and the other. It's the healthy assertive, not the more aggressive version.

Feminine communication comes from inner strength. It's not a mental decision to speak a certain way. As such it takes getting used to. It can even feel awkward to be that 'naked' in conversation, yet it does feel good and shift connections to a totally different plane. The response is amazing.

It is anything like:
I don't like...
I don't want...
I don't feel XYZ... (good, comfortable, happy etc.)
It feels XYZ to me... (awkward, icky, scary, etc. etc.)
I feel... XYZ (whatever you genuinely feel, good or bad without accusation)...
This makes me feel XYZ...

And great to add something like, "How can we sort this?" or "What can we do about it?" to it.

"WE" as you then get the other involved and show you are open to their input. It also shows you aren't accusing them, you are merely expressing how YOU feel, then end with asking their help or advise. (if applicable to the situation of course)
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