anyone here facing the loneliness?

[angel-of-light]

Originally Posted by iamthat

Your friends and family may not understand where you are at but there are plenty of people out there who are following a wide variety of spiritual paths.

Have you looked in your town or neighbourhood to see what is on offer? For example, meditation groups, weekend courses, personal development, and so on. That is one way to meet people who resonate with you.

And it doesn't mean that you have to turn your back on your family and friends - you can still enjoy their company without looking to them to understand and support you on your journey.

Peace

in our town either they religious or either they none religious not really yoga session under the tree or meditations, I used to have when I was young at my hometown reiki group when I was 13 years, but I am far from hometown stuck in nowhere on a city in the mountain, but hey we try to survive after all aren't we :)?, at least the air is somehow clean! at least until they start burn things up but hey that still an awesome view wish you could see every morning at my window the sun raise up and i see the whole town and mountain that breath taking, like a big tower in the mountain, almost like fairy tells, all i miss now is the princesses i work on this hehe :)

[Joyny]

Originally Posted by angel-of-light

you watch them as no matter how hard you try to elevate their thinking and point of view yet they hold so preciously to negativity and low vibration chaos and conflicts

Mirrors. You can't see in others what's not inside you. We very bad see ourselves and we tend to think we are enlightened... thats true sign that we are not.

I was (still am at some level) in a similar position as you... just decided to abandon my "spiritual journeys"... now learning to love my brother's alcoholic or my childish father and try to see sparks of light in my relatives and surrounding people. I wish I could see the beauty of people more... It is hard to see the beauty in a boy who abused my daughter... I can't see it still...I see darkness in that mirror..

Jesus went to so-called "lower class"/unspiritual people a lot - he looks at them and finds sparks of light. He enjoyed so much being with "simple people". That's where we can find who we are.

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by angel-of-light

so you saying if I understand correctly that this pain I feel like 1000 knives in my heart emotionally are needed for me to complete myself?,

all those lonely nights and choking from tears?, I hope you are right I hope that I do will find my peace being tormented like this is not fun, and thanks also to everyone here that show support,

that really help all those insights,
I still haven't given up to help in what I can to be of service to others,
I know that I will get hurt and I know I will be judged by them and I know
that they will be ungrateful but I still feel responsible to use my powers to help,


and thank you also iamthat good to know the way that happened to me with religion isn't just my case that gives me comfort to know that,


to see everyone celebrating their holidays and stand there as they ask you to join and you need to fake this as you don't feel any connection to any human's religion just so you won't be outcasted that feel good to know I am not the only one.

Describing pain as you’ve shown will often become more intense for longer periods because we get too involved with the mind and it’s relating if pain. So naturally intensity in feeling will have a story attached, but the beautiful thing in feeling is that if you don’t attach what’s happening in the opening and letting go, the tears and release, you can shift it faster.

Watch a child who stays very present with strong emotions, they will fire up with intense outbursts and if it’s welcomed safely by the onlooker without interference, and a safe space is held, the child will shift that emotion fast. One minute their screaming and all hell breaks loose, the next minute they are smiling and enjoying their play.

That’s your potential too.

I’ve been where you are, I cried non stop for five years in the core of myself undoing all those knives, cuts, wounds and trauma in my body.

I’m at peace now..

I can feel and let go fast now.

So if you practice allowing, staying present without thoughts of what is happening and why, you can shift from this fast too.

Once you intervene with a story you bridge more stories. I’m not saying it’s not ok to describe pain, but more become aware your not the pain, it’s taken up residence in you from lifetimes of suppression.

Some life times are to release the whole lot..

I like those words from Fulcanelli: to know to be able to dare to be silent.

Know:

Naive limitation of natural processes, skill combined with ingenuity, the insights of long experience will ensure the

Power, to be able:

As a director, he will still need patience, constancy, and an unwavering will. Bold and resolute, the certainty and confidence born of a strong faith will allow him to

Dare:

Finally, when success will have consecrated so many laborious years, when desires will be fulfilled, the Wise Man, despising the vanities of the world, will come closer to the humble, the disinherited, to everything that works, suffers, struggles, despairs and cries here below. An anonymous and mute disciple of Eternal Nature, an apostle of eternal Charity, he will remain faithful to his vow of silence.

In Science, in the Good, the Adept must forever

Keep silent.

Regards

Yes pretty much everyone I know is living in 'the Matrix', i.e. they are only concerned about the cares of this world. It is actually disturbing to see these people.

As for being lonely - and what I would recommend to you - is to occupy yourself with a vision where you want to be in life. Personally I need to find a place for me and my two kids. I don't feel the need to give knowledge or have company with many more people currently.

[Miss Hepburn]

Originally Posted by iamthat

I think we all go through different stages on our journey in this lifetime.

Yup, wise words.
Also, everything passes.

Cure for loneliness?
Give to those less fortunate. And now.
(Face to face, not just writing a check.)

[Native spirit]

I would have to agree with Iamthat on this.
but every road we walk we can become Lonely. we can even be lonely in a family unit.


Namaste

[angel-of-light]

Originally Posted by JustBe

Describing pain as you’ve shown will often become more intense for longer periods because we get too involved with the mind and it’s relating if pain. So naturally intensity in feeling will have a story attached, but the beautiful thing in feeling is that if you don’t attach what’s happening in the opening and letting go, the tears and release, you can shift it faster.

Watch a child who stays very present with strong emotions, they will fire up with intense outbursts and if it’s welcomed safely by the onlooker without interference, and a safe space is held, the child will shift that emotion fast. One minute their screaming and all hell breaks loose, the next minute they are smiling and enjoying their play.

That’s your potential too.

I’ve been where you are, I cried non stop for five years in the core of myself undoing all those knives, cuts, wounds and trauma in my body.

I’m at peace now..

I can feel and let go fast now.

So if you practice allowing, staying present without thoughts of what is happening and why, you can shift from this fast too.

Once you intervene with a story you bridge more stories. I’m not saying it’s not ok to describe pain, but more become aware your not the pain, it’s taken up residence in you from lifetimes of suppression.

Some life times are to release the whole lot..

that what I and my spirit guide help me working on, not only emotions but on social formality to be less serious and tight, my fear is though that because of my carelessness I may hurt or offend someone accidently,

she tries to help me calm down and learn to joke and laugh like I used to be when I was a kid, she tells me if I indeed hurt someone I can ask forgiveness and not tight, myself up, just like when I was a kid when I roam freely laugh did jokes and pranks,

the truth is the more I get better with it the more I can just sit and laugh with my biological family of course that not the most topics I desire for but at least have a good time.

[angel-of-light]

Originally Posted by Joyny

Mirrors. You can't see in others what's not inside you. We very bad see ourselves and we tend to think we are enlightened... thats true sign that we are not.

I was (still am at some level) in a similar position as you... just decided to abandon my "spiritual journeys"... now learning to love my brother's alcoholic or my childish father and try to see sparks of light in my relatives and surrounding people. I wish I could see the beauty of people more... It is hard to see the beauty in a boy who abused my daughter... I can't see it still...I see darkness in that mirror..

Jesus went to so-called "lower class"/unspiritual people a lot - he looks at them and finds sparks of light. He enjoyed so much being with "simple people". That's where we can find who we are.

wise words, although if we already speak about it, I know I am not enlightened I just try to help to help them elevate their thinking pattern not by forcing them to listen but by explaining them the deep stuffs, I am not perfect I try to get better to improve, I have flaws, but then again if I was perfect in this lifetime what will be the point of my journey here? there is beauty in every one of us I know I see that in others I love them that why I want to help other creations,


not just humans I want to help protect and preserve and heal and restore balance, but sometimes the frustration from trying and trying so hard to help them see, and not able to speak on deep matters that bit hard I try to learn to try to take things less seriously as I did when I was a child but easier say than done eventually I will succeed but until then I keep trying and never give up not on my journey and not on any creation,

for I know that love will lead us all into a brighter future, I don't believe in judging others for we the creations are not perfect therefore we can never do fair and perfect justice.

Originally Posted by angel-of-light

that so much painful like a blade piercing the heart and soul emotionally,
there are nights I just choke in tears.

One thing I can tell you is, it will not always be that hard to live through. And I've been where you are.

It gets better ! Don't give up. You feel the way you do for a reason.

Originally Posted by Native spirit

we can even be lonely in a family unit.

Definitely.