is there something i should do or just wait this one out?

for months now actually i have felt the presence now and then in my dreams of a spirit who use to be a man that i knew in real life. i am no longer in contact with the person that use to unite us. i think the spirit feel i belong to the same soul group. i think that it feels responsible for the other person having turned out the way it did, a touch of guilt I suppose.

I do not know if there is something I should do or just wait this one out for it to go tired on me and move on? it is as if it feels responsible too for what happened between us but every grown up is responsible for it's own stuff and i personally think this spirit should give it a rest. everyone has a choice on how to turn out, we can't blame someone else forever because of it.

this is the second time someone who is not in direct connection with me but with someone from my past who then seeks me out in the after life.first time it happened and its looks was described it said nothing to me because i had not even met this spirit in real life and did not know what it then looked like.

it feel so strange in a way, i am feeling the connection from the departed on one hand, and the other connection who use to die out on the other, when it should be those two that should feel the connection. does that make any sense? i have thought if i could do some sort of ritual and move myself out of the equation so these two can feel the connection? is there a way? the person still alive is not so connected to me. i think it would still be nice if this person could feel the love-connection from the departed one? i can't get back in contact with this other person still alive, and explain all this, it would just be super weird and the person would most likely think i was making it all up. i wish!

i know they had their issues before but i never had any problem with the one who has passed over.