My twin flame is a woman

[dianamadalina]

Until the last 8 years since I've known this forums I thought my twin ia a man yet I realised she is actually a woman. I look at her like at a guru, my paraptar guru. From all the information I gathered from here.
She calls me Poojya and started spiritual practice 8 years ago. She is guiding me in this path towards God realisation and our spiritual level is similar

[jro5139]

Yes what you described, that is what a tf is, and it can show up in platonic or same sex relationships too.

[aimtobe]

I haven't yet met my twin in this life, but I do sense the energy they have. It is more feminine energy, but as I've learned, that only tells me their "energetic sex," if you will. Until I meet them in person, I have no idea if they are man or woman. Though I would expect a woman in the 3D world, I am aware that it might be a man, or even a non-binary or transgender person. I have an open mind.

[dianamadalina]

If she knew I poated here I would be ttrated as a stalker

[dianamadalina]

I came to realisation it was just my thoughts of balackbhav towards Krishna that made me say my guide is my twin flame.
By having severe destiny I am not entitled for twin flame anymore just 100 % destiny.

[dianamadalina]

A vague idea of trying to be grounded

[Kaliope]

I have never much gotten into the twin flame/soulmate stuff due to bad relationships in the past. After much time alone I finally opened up to the idea of a relationship and put it out there. And I have been getting messages for over four months that this person is coming. And that thought came into my head That it may not be a man. My daughter keeps telling me she feels like it’s a woman. And when I sit there and think about what this relationship will be, I realize there would be no questions or doubts because of the connection

[lostsoul13]

it's great that you have a platonic relationship-- as flames we have the dignity to serve which incarnation we can... being a woman, man or non binary!

[FairyCrystal]

TFs aren't same sex, nor platonic. Same sex could occur when someone is gay.
TFs are one and the same, but split into a feminine and masculine part. That's why the longing came into being, the longing to be together again.
One whole consists of a femin and masc. part so never same sex UNLESS someone's sexual orientation this life is same sex.
But in same sex relationship one still carries the feminine and the other the masculine.
And it's never platonic. If it could and would be, the longing to reunite wouldn't be there, so you just wouldn't come together again, not ever.

So much info out there on TFs, some even good, and people still don't understand.
You rarely meet them when searching for them btw. You meet them when you are NOT looking, when you are happy on your own, not needing someone else to feel whole and happy. Then you are ready to meet your TF, provided this is meant for you this life, which is not the case for many. Which is also okay. You can still find deep, lasting, healthy love.

[rousseau]

I wish my twin flame were my wife.

For if she were another woman, conjugal life could indeed be in jeopardy.

But I really don't know!