Is it wrong to try and contact a dead loved one via magic?

I am new here,and I recently lost my father (march 5,06)..I was blessed to be able to see him,but the day I left he seemed to be ok..and squeezed my hand tightly as if he knew he wouldn't be seeing me anymore, I left that night, and Monday my mom had called to deliver me the news that my dad had passed on, since then I have been asking him to give me signs,but reading your posts I know now that I should just relax and wait for his time..I understand that there is no time in the universe..and I thought that just applied to when you pray to the Lord and in his time he will answer your prayers..but I understand now that it goes for spirits as well...


I also lost a dear friend in 1989, she was 29 and died of cancer, and every now and then I get a whiff of her perfume, or I will hear her favorite song on the radio..I just look up and say "Hi Kathy"..I strongly believe that they like to be acknowledged...