Someone else's awakening

[Kalika]

Hello :]

I'm hoping what I'm about to ask doesn't come across as a strange question.

Background: abusive childhood, spiritual growth (and growing), forgiveness, all is well.

Except, the emotional abusers (x 2) appear to be unaware/stuck spiritually (unenlightened). And my question is, is it possible to help someone else grow? Although reluctant to use labels, if you picture a person with a narcissistic personality disorder (describes both) and one is physically unwell (elderly), and age hasn't softened them, is it possible to encourage/support a snippet of enlightenment or spiritual development before they go?

I'm not expecting them to say they were sorry since I've let go of all expectations though it would be nice to know they pass over with a sense of unconditional love in their hearts and a healed healthier soul. In short, I see their pained inner child who never knew what it meant to feel and express unconditional love (hence why they parented the way they did).

And if they don't awaken, what will that mean?

Thank you in advance.