Difficult situation

I think you have made the right decision in breaking up. In my experience (though others may differ) it is necessary to be able to meet in person fairly regularly in order to have a complete relationship. The internet and phone is good, but it just doesn't offer the kind of real closeness needed for a satisfying relationship. You will be longing to see the person physically, but not be able to and that will leave you unsatisfied.

I think that if your partner is not into "spiritual" things, that can also be a reason that they may not be suited to you long term. If you want someone to share your life with, and be close to, it is best if you both have the same goals. If they will not understand why you want to devote time to, say, meditation practice (or think it is nonsense) then they may not be right for you in the long run. There are many factors in choosing a relationship, and we should always love them, but I think it's good to be a bit fussy and only choose someone who matches you well.

[Emmalevine]

Thanks for your post Oliness. That's what I discovered too, that skype and phone are no substitute for physcial company. His lack of interest in spirituality and psychology would probably have been a factor later on but the distance was certainly enough to bring the relationship to a grinding halt. He was satisfied from his perspective but it wasn't enough for me. I don't regret it but it's a shame it didn't work out. Hopefully another door will open in time.