SC angry and lost heaps of weight

airydoug · #1 24-04-2013, 08:00 AM

SC still running. Saw her briefly just now and appears to have lost weight. She was a bit overweight before, now she seems the perfect weight but she doesn't seem healthy. She's angry and stressed out 24-7, according to her step-Mother. The connection is doing this I know or she's letting the connection get to her.

She never replies to emails or wants to talk so what can I put in an email that will help her to relax?

#2 24-04-2013, 10:24 AM

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The connection is doing this I know or she's letting the connection get to her.

She never replies to emails or wants to talk so what can I put in an email that will help her to relax?

Space

#3 24-04-2013, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Natalia

Space

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#4 24-04-2013, 12:58 PM

Yes space is always a good idea. Leave her be and if it's meant to be she'll come around. I speak from experience and making any sort of contact when some one needs "time to think" or a "break" will only push them further away. You don't want that do you?

Impulsv · #5 24-04-2013, 05:01 PM

Specially when they are overwhelmed n affecting their health. They may blame us for it n can't to be as far away as possible from us. My tf had lost 25 lbs last I saw him. Not healthy looking at all to the bones. Lost interest in things he loved to do cooking n working out. It's been 4 months I had a gut feeling telling me to let him be his building back up. Ill only send him a birthday card soon
N let him be.