Temper, Temper, Ian...

[Ian Haines]

Hi, Guys...


= Ever lost your temper with your Angel?

= Ever shouted at your Angel?

= Ever sworn at your Angel?

= Ever accused your Angel of having betrayed you, let you down, failed you or having not listened to what you've asked them to help you do?

I have! I probably will do again, one day...soon!

How am I supposed to deal with that let down feeling, and the anger?

How can my Angel want to look after me in any way when I've sworn and shouted at him/her? Isn't my Angel more likely to disown me and help me no more at all?



Ian.

[yellow]

No, I think they understand that we are human beings.

I have had that Let down feeling, then realised that I was probably just misinterpreting communications. I guess it happens sometimes.

[Neenu]

My guide told me they are not here to judge us, it is not their mission. They are here to help us grow and develop unconditionally. If you think about having had a guide along your side for the enitre lifetime , why would they abandone you now that you are talking to them and they have a better possibility of helping you? If they would give up so easily, they would have left during those years when you did not communicate with them. Imagine how frustrating period that has been to them ;)
Do you think you lashing out at them might be a lesson from them to you?
Just my thoughts.
N

[Ian Haines]

Well, if it's a lesson from my Angel/s to me, then the message was lost, somewhere in the translation, because I've no solid core idea as to why they would do that. I've been talking to my Angel/s for around two years, now, and I've had plenty of signs that they are there.

Why would they want me to lash out at them, if I'm the one who, in all weakness (fallibility in the form of simply not knowing that they were even there?) somehow failed them? Is it because they lashed out by doing nothing that I asked of them? How can I be blamed for not knowing that they were there for all of those years, when my only crime, there, is that I just simply didn't know that they were there?

Thanks for your replies, folks! It helps to chew things over, now and then.

[Neenu]

I would not see it as you failing them, as you are not here to serve them, they are here to help you. Be kinder to your self and dont beat yourself up, there is a time and a place for everything, even for the difficult stuff.

No, I do not take my frustrations with angels, or my angel.
I only call for him in times of need,
not to abuse and blame everything going wrong on him.

*I should think that it won't be angels who'd come to attend to somebody swearing and in malicious state of mind.
Angels are of the higher state of mind and definitely love.

How am I supposed to deal with that let down feeling, and the anger?

Simple, you may use meditation to clear your mind - aim for achieving your peace of mind.
Why? See http://www.ehow.com/facts_5332152_be...editation.html - where you may also click on How to Avoid Losing Your Temper.
See http://www.ehow.com/how_5750_meditate.html for simple Meditation Instruction.

[Rah nam]

Originally Posted by Ian Haines

Hi, Guys...


= Ever lost your temper with your Angel?

= Ever shouted at your Angel?

= Ever sworn at your Angel?

= Ever accused your Angel of having betrayed you, let you down, failed you or having not listened to what you've asked them to help you do?

I have! I probably will do again, one day...soon!

How am I supposed to deal with that let down feeling, and the anger?

How can my Angel want to look after me in any way when I've sworn and shouted at him/her? Isn't my Angel more likely to disown me and help me no more at all?



Ian.

Only once, when I was told, I am one myself. I did not like the idea, and did not talk to them for more then two weeks. But then one gets used to the idea and does not change my life. Only keeping my agreement became stronger. Agreement I made coming here, and following trough with what I need to do.

[Ian Haines]

Well...thanks, guys! I'll keep on going and I might even return to meditating, because it made a significant difference to my mind and emotions within the first week, last time around. That concentration is difficult, though. One day, I'll start another thread on that trouble with med', probably.

Thanks for all replies!