Hard to let the Universe do its thing, advice needed

[RedEmbers]

I just thought that I'd quickly mention that I just watched a cool video on YouTube called "if you have to think about it, it's a NO".

IT TALKS about how our body quickly knows and intuitively what our "Yes" answers are and that overthinkng is often a sign that our mind is trying to justify an intuitive "No".

One quick way to find out what our heart is saying is by breathing deeply with the right hand placed on the chest and the left t hand placed on the solar plexus and asking the heart what it needs right now or asking the heart what it would love to do or experience right now.

The video talks a bit about not being attracted to outcomes and enjoying the flow of intuition and love, and uncertainty with all of its learning and growth opportunities

The reason I am mentioning it here is because you are asking for some input on how to let the universe work for you.

[AStites]

Not that this warrants a conclusion of sorts, but after all this time I did find a bit of one. I couldn't get it out of my head that I just plain old couldn't find this man with all the info I had, it was weird info and not the easiest to plug into a search. Turned out I had found him, pretty early on by doing just that and searching the random information. The reason I didn't realize it had been him is the article I had found about him, was because it was about a much younger person and had no photo. Late at night I came across this article again and realized it was pretty old, did some math and when I looked up his name on Instagram - it was him!
Bad news is I have reached out and it's gone unread ever since. Good news is that that needling feeling of unfinished business is gone.
The real story is though that the universe had provided the answer to me even before I started this article, I just didn't pay attention, and I guess that is my real lesson.

[Redchic12]

Lovely story Stites, yep it sure is funny how things work out hey.

[RedEmbers]

Cool story.


Perhaps the unfinished business was simply getting the message out, make contact and that was that.



I think I get it now, I have intuitive nudges to walk different routes to my usual path when out and about in town, then I have these fleeting encounters with people I would not have otherwise met and learn new stories and information or share things through small talk... then that is that, we both go along our merry way


I've a friend who calls the phenomenon "fleeting intimacies"


It's like tiny, universal contracts being fulfilled.

Originally Posted by AStites

I have always been a doer, but in the last handful of years, I have gotten better at sitting back and letting things work themselves out- except when it comes to my love life - in that regard, I have a hard time not writing the script so to speak.

Can relate. To me, it's obvious that 'the final test' in letting go is meeting your loved one. I want to say 'you', but it'll be me a lot.

You'll want to think you're no good to this person, that they're no good to you, whatever, the stars sort of aligned but they didn't really align.
Basically, you will tell yourself anything to keep away, so he will.
For some time at least!

And then you have a puzzle to figure out.

My piece of advice: focus on the puzzle.
Then you'll have an idea of where you want to go.