Hello Everyone

Hi everyone!

I came across this site searching for a chat or forum of positive influence. Ive been going through a really tough time lately. Was kicked out by my mother in october (im 27 with a soon to be two year old and moved back in because i was laid off and at the time was broken up from my boyfriend), this january my boyfriend of almost 10 years left me to be with a woman hes been cheating on me with nearly half our relationship and my daughter and i have been living with his mother. Basically he just left us hear (talk about awkward) and i havent found work yet (very frustrating). Ive been obsessed with finding work so i can save and move into a place of my own and get away from his family (their not bad but its hard to let go when im surrounded by everything that involves him and the fact that he's still confused about whether he wants me or her but i will never go back to him). I have alot of anger built up and just want my freedom but i feel stuck and need a way to let all of this out. That's pretty much my story, lol. I am in graduate school though but i guess im just tired of feeling helpless and stuck with no control. I look forward to meeting you all.

Hi Ivy,

firstly I'd like to say I'm very sorry to hear that happened to you. It's hard enough to be cheated on and lied to especially after that long. I can only imagine how much more difficult it must be having to relive it everyday while living with his family. I hope it all works out for you in the end though.

Well I'm new to this site and spirituality but just thought I'd say hi and welcome you and let you know this site is chalk full of information and friendly, helpful people. I'm sure you'll enjoy it and good luck again.

Thank you very much Alpha! Im pretty new too but it has helped alot. I have faith things will work out, its the processs and waiting that gets frustrating

Hello Ivy

You certainly have had a rough time of it. I'm very sorry you have had to go through such a sad and uncomfortable situation. I hope you find strength and peace once all the fog has cleared. Best of luck to you.

[Shabda]

hi ivy, im sorry to hear of your troubles, and ive experienced each of them myself at some point in my life...welcome to the forums and i hope you enjoy what you find here~!

A warm welcome to SF, regards.

Tough times never last, but tough people do,everything will be alright soon.

Hi Ivy
Welcome! it is never nice to hear when someone goes through such a bad time. I am also new on the site, but think that this could be the place to get that postive feedback and energy you seek.

[Smiler]

Hi Ivy

My heart goes out to you . I know you are having a real rough time *HUG*
If possible try and make a list of small achievements you have and are doing ..keep building on that list .. Life will turn around for you ..believe in that okay . One achievement that is honorable is that you can clearly see that you are worthwhile and valuable in your own right. You have set boundaries with X boyfriend .. That is a giant step! Be proud of you for that. Take it a day at a time moving forward and soon you will find yourself in a new tomorrow!

All the Best
:)

Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement. This is exactly what i needed and i hope and pray the best for all of you as well.

[Spiritlite]

Hi Ivy it sounds like you're having very tough times and I'm sorry to hear that however you've come to a very supportive site and I hope to get to know you better and that you learn new things and that you get the support you need.
Spiritlite.