WOW. Let me start out by saying this has been the craziest almost two weeks of my life.
Back story: I met my guy (soulmate) in 1995, we were both 21. I was dumb, couldn't handle he intensity so I basically messed up the relationship. I was. so deeply hurt for so long and would just say I broke me own heart.
10 years ago: I found him on social media, we confirmed the bond but did not meet in person but stayed in touch.
Summer 2023, I move back to NYC and he lives here. I have been scared and nervous but finally face the fear and schedule the meet up.
02/09: We meet up and all the feelings come back. Many obstacles in the way but all of them have solutions.
We have made about 8373 plans and goals at this point, most which seem could be solved with a giant lump of money. I think we both feel like well hey we made a plan but both expect it to be fixed overnight.
Please help me navigate this stage.
Thanks!