Dropping identity

[JustBe]

Well I know all about deep Pisces, as one myself.

I like a good argument, one where you can battle things out authentically. I’m not one for hidden agendas, but I’d rather people be honest in how they feel and see things.

I suppose I’m more of the debating type, you could say.

The problem is that can be seen as something negative.

[FallingLeaves]

Originally Posted by JustBe

Discernment is part of refinement as I’ve learned falling leaves.

depends on which form of discernment I suppose. If you follow the form of discernment found on the 'wide way' it probably won't help you... OTOH 'narrow path' discernment would work...

desire and expectations- tend to lead you back to you anyway.

the only offense I take with such statements, is, in the implicit thing people do where they assume the only possible viable goal is for ascension/enlightenment/feeling good. It just seems so limiting... besides I'm still mad I wasn't let in the club (wolfish grin).

When I learned to let the box go it was most freeing;)

well there is a difference, between constraints one can live and thrive under and not being constrained... most people who find themselves 'free' don't understand that difference from what I can tell so their claims about being free become a form of self-delusion.... don't know you well enough to know if you are in that group though. Although just as a general thought it is hard for me to believe there could be someone who lives unconstrained and thus has no box whatsoever...

[FallingLeaves]

Originally Posted by JustBe

The problem is that can be seen as something negative.

you don't really seem to be debating when I read you

to be honest I don't have a good social foundation where I can decide what it might be acceptable to say on a forum like this, so I spend a lot of time wondering how far is too far... I know we aren't supposed to fight with each other but don't know for example exactly what that means in terms of how far I can go with being obstinate lol...