My x-friend

Probably, you may have to tell her that you cannot be her friend any more. You may have to be blunt. I get that you don't want to hurt her and you want to be kind. I had to tell someone that I couldn't be her friend any more. There was always a crisis that either happens to her or she creates and she calls me or my husband to come help. It got to the point that I was avoiding her calls because my stomach would literally start to hurt and I would start to panic when I heard her ringtone. I emailed her that I didn't have energy for me and my family, let alone her and I didn't have the energy for emails or phone calls. Then she shows up at the door with flowers for me! I finally had to be blunt and tell her that I simply could not be the type of friend she needed and I was sorry. I then got another email from her that was several paragraphs long detailing all the problems and crises she was dealing with. I am not Super Man and I cannot save her from herself. I tried and it put me in bed. I didn't respond to her email. She's a lovely woman, kind and loving but it was just too much.

[Marie]

so much been said and done Ive lost track,I just feel over burdened and most definitely high treason, while her knowing my history and does it anyway. thats high treason to me,after such a ride theres no going back.ever. its just feels like somethings lost and cant be got back,which is trust, and the knowledge that she knew my history and family and still threw me out at a whim. NO. I say. thing is Im still concerned treating her inside the laws of creation. question is how.

[Marie]

She has written me AGAIN,another email where she tries to talk and ask me how I feel, since Im ill. Despite I litterally said I cannot write to her before im well and that i cant over look it! talk about disrespect. she doesnt even respect that. what on earth do I DO? im too ill to take up a battle NOW.

Delete her messages, do not read them. If she calls, do not answer her calls, delete her voice mails.

[Marie]

yeah Ive not answered her