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Originally Posted by IndigoAmber
Do any of you believe that maybe it's not meant for a person to have a really good friend? I find myself in life alone often. Sometimes I wonder if my gifts actually isolate me.
I'm not mean, I am friendly, kind, and giving. But it just doesn't seem to be enough when it comes to finding a true friend. I'm beginning to feel like maybe I'm not supposed to have one.
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I love being my own friend first and foremost. In my teen years, I was very insecure. I used toxic relationships as a way for me to find security. After a long uphill battle out of that scenario I realized that I am my own best friend.
I started to take myself on dates (Yes, I would go have the most expensive steak dinner by myself). I stopped caring about the loneliness. It was very hard at first, but I kept pushing myself further and further. Eventually I started doing meditation retreats where I met like minded people and have created one of the strongest friendships.
Get out and have fun with yourself.
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