When Spirit comes what to do

[energy4ever]

I have been approached by the spirit of my exes relative.
First I did not know he was dead (or if before been sick or in an accident).

It was first couple of days and nights of streams of communication, then less frequent.

In Life he and my ex had their issues but behaved around me. He has explained some things to me. Feel as if he has healed me from some things from the relationship and I am left with a better understanding of everything. Feels so good!

I have gotten used to other Spirits communicating but not like this relative.

I suppose to him we are still Family and he's watching over us (Me included in that).

I now am thinking of contacting a Medium if it is so that the relative needs help. Should I do that or wait?