I don't know where to post this but I feel the Taoism forum is most like my home place. So I hope it's so..If I get o's again after another post here I will feel like all I do is annoy you
My husband is on the Medical Marijuana program which is legal in this state. However, he was stopped by a policeman last night who saw the weed on his dashboard and arrested him. He was not smoking and riding arund...he hadn't smoked in 3-4 hours but mj stays in your system for 30 days and they tested him and he failed.
He spent a horrible, frightening night in jail. I was on the phone with the bail bondsman and him all day trying to get him out, Finally he showed up at home by taxi late last night. He was a wreck and crying and full of fear and shame.
Now this guy is very Taoist without knowing it. He has a wonderful attitude about life, always happy, loves to make people laugh, is very responsible, works two jobs, homeowner, musician, artist, totally himself in a beautiful way...etc.
He does have an awful anxiety problem and has tried psyche meds instead of mj but they cause him to fall asleep. His anxiety runs in his family...his grand-mother was so nervous she had to have a labotomy.
The point here is he was legal to smoke it, but not to have it in the car. He showed them his papers but they didn't care. We've been told once he goes to court and they see he's in the mj program they'll throw it out.
I am angry, feel bad for him and at the same time weirdly detached. I know that something good always comes out of bad situations. It was an emotionally wrenching day plus I had to work and keep checking my phone for collect calls from jail. Btw, he's never been to jail. It's going to cost our hard saved money.
I just need a little support. Does anyone in Taoism love me or should I go elsewhere? I'm just human, trying to follow the way...sometimes it gets swampy...this path.