Tell me something good

[blackraven]

Originally Posted by Really!

What is good as well as valuable is when a person understands/realizes the purpose of fear & insecurity when uncontrolled/tragic events occur ...
This knowledge allows a person to work w/effectiveness toward healing emotional pain to restore balance in one's life ...

This is something that's difficult, but if one can move onward and ahead in life after tragedy, that kind of strength is irreplaceable and to be admired and honored. I've read about your loss on several other threads and haven't had the chance to jump in and say I don't know how an individual can survive under such circumstances. My heart would be broken and never stop aching. But life continues and a spouse/partner (especially one that is a parent too) has no choice, as painful as moving forward is. I admire your survival strength and in sharing your pain with other members of SF. This kind of sharing of severe pain can help one realize their anguish just can't compare to what others go through in life.

[blackraven]

Being open-minded and non-judgmental in everything one does in life.

[Really!]

Originally Posted by blackraven

Being open-minded and non-judgmental in everything one does in life.

This is true for some people like myself, but not others who find hate justifiable &/or consoling ...
It took every bit of strength as well as spiritualism I had to combat the all consuming rage & grief I felt from my husband's death ...
I also gave up karma because I did/do not want to spend my life thinking about consequences his future could possibly hold ...
For me, karma spurred hatred & more anger that prevented healing ...
I never hated the killer, the most I ever wanted to do was hit him on the head w/a phone book & ask how he could have been so stupid as to not know pulling in front of a driver at 75+mph then slamming his brakes on would not result in tragic consequences ...

[Really!]

Originally Posted by blackraven

This is something that's difficult, but if one can move onward and ahead in life after tragedy, that kind of strength is irreplaceable and to be admired and honored. I've read about your loss on several other threads and haven't had the chance to jump in and say I don't know how an individual can survive under such circumstances. My heart would be broken and never stop aching. But life continues and a spouse/partner (especially one that is a parent too) has no choice, as painful as moving forward is. I admire your survival strength and in sharing your pain with other members of SF. This kind of sharing of severe pain can help one realize their anguish just can't compare to what others go through in life.

Thank you ...
This type of tragedy stays w/a person, however, it does not stop a person from moving forward if they are able to understand living w/anger & hatred seriously depletes the soul as well as cutting off love from others ...
There is only stagnation ...
Granted, its extremely & unimaginably difficult to overcome a senseless death, it can be done over the consistent years of grief w/alot of work & faith ...

[Light the Human]

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