Need more help from you guys. Im sorry to bother.

PecaS · #1 11-08-2022, 05:44 AM

Mom is still with us. However, she's heavily sedated, and all we can do is wait for her final transition. It is very hard. As we go back to her lab work, things that we could have done differently (as if any of that matter), but there is little that you can do to prevent or stop cancer from metastasizing.

Nonetheless, my sister and I, her sole, whole family, and caretakers are hearing from the extended family and family friends "she must have something left pending, she should have left a while back"

We have said goodbyes, asked for forgiveness, got forgiveness, and close family and friends have all come to say good bye. Those who were not able to come, called and a speaker was placed nearby.

I have some gifts that I am learning to trust, as you might know. But I would like an objective view as to what is it that it's holding my mother back.

the second thing I need help with is communicating with her once the transition is completed. I know that right now the soul is busy doing whatever souls need to do to separate from the body. But afterwards, I need to know she's ok and to be able to talk to her.

Any suggestions as to how to achieve that? excersies or something?

Also, my sister is new at this, how would you go about teaching her to fine tune her own skills to reach "talking -to mom- spirit level"?

hazada guess · #2 11-08-2022, 12:27 PM

Your mother is holding on for YOU. Sit with her, gently hold her hand and tell her it is ok to go when she wants to . Tell her that you and your sister will manage ok. She is also apprehensive of what is to be, tell her that there is nothing to worry about and that her deceased relatives are waiting for her.
She will communicate through a number of ways. Odd signs, synchronicities etc .It may take a month or so though, while her soul gets acclimatised.
Depending on how advanced your gifts are, she will send messages through thought and you may get visions of her in your sleep.(Looking about 30).
I am sorry for you at this time take care of yourself.

Miss Hepburn · #3 11-08-2022, 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by PecaS

..We have said goodbyes, asked for forgiveness, got forgiveness, and close family and friends have all come to say good bye.
Those who were not able to come, called and a speaker was placed nearby.

Hi, and I am so sorry...most of us have gone thru some similar things. :(

Could I suggest telling her you forgive her of anything you could think of
(or maybe I misunderstood , that's what you meant)...
or maybe say, God forgives you of everything and loves you so much?
Your brother forgives you, (if you know of any issue, ya know).
Maybe she is the one that wants to be forgiven ...just a thought...I know nothing about the situation.
Or try - "It's going to be so wonderful, you'll see Susan soon and Dad!!!"
"And we'll be seeing you soon, too...all healthy!"

*These are just ideas I'm tossing out if they could fit.

With my mom: Told her, ''Everything is taken care of...all the bills are paid for.''
That was weighing on her. "I have handled everything...the house, the utilities, it was easy to do...you're freed up from it all, mom." :)
She went within 2-3 days in her sleep.
( She had no illness, her heart just stopped at 88...she was FREE, esp after she found her missing wedding ring, lost for over 20 yrs!
I about fell over when the coroner gave it to me.)