Is someone warning me?

[Bluefonsy]

Ok, am feeling a bit freaked lol

Have been having email communications with someone I haven't met in real life but have revealed much too. It's kind of complicated. They're a very very intelligent psychologically aware person, they send a lot of mixed signals. My feelings have been hurt.
Well complicated to say the least.

I have my worries, but also this person keeps affirming their good intentions.

Now, the person's surname is ..., whenever, literally WHENEVER I have email communication with this person, a piece of spam falls into my inbox that says "goodbye ...." their surname"
My spam usually gets filtered.....

It's more than syncornicity it's a sign, but I'm confused, who's doing this/what's doing this and what's the message, is '.....' bad news, I could buy that but still, I don't won't to be mean and cut someone out

Sorry I can't give more details about the complicatedness, I'd be here all day

[WhiteWarrior]

I guess I am thinking along an entirely different line here. Get someone else to use the word gray in an email to you. If that email also is followed by that same spam then I think that tells you to find a new email service for yourself.

[Adrienne]

sometimes people have a tendency to give more credit to something being a sign, when it isn't necessarily so

If you are having feelings that something isn't right with this person you are connected with, listen to your feelings .... you don't need additional signs to tell you what you already are concerned about, if it isn't feeling right, then perhaps that in itself is a warning ?

I was looking up a few sites, basic clothing stores ... then when I went on a forum that wasn't ad free ... these shopping sites that I had previously looked at, appeared at the top of the page ...sure they might be cookie crumbs, but they for sure weren't a sign !

I would say don't worry about it being a sign, or go with White Warrior's suggestion.

oh and just a FYI - don't post too much personal info about the person you are speaking about, not good on a public forum in the first place . Think about if you would like him to post similar about you ? ......

[Bluefonsy]

Will try out that, although, I do feel that it is a sign, I use my email a lot, it's a good provider. There's something to this I know. sorry, felt I had to include that surname detail for that to make sense, and who he is isn't traceable from just the name, but did feel uncomfortable doing that.

[Adrienne]

someone else can't for sure tell you if something is a sign or not, you can get a variety of opinions though .....

I have had some signs that I know for sure were signs, and others were convinced I had birds flying around in my place, leaving me feathers for presents, LOL ! ha ha ha .....anything is possible

just be careful, I wish you the best !

[Bluefonsy]

I kind of am hyper vigilant because other people have said they do not trust this person, who have spoken with them, I will remove the personal surname now

[Adrienne]

good idea on removing the surname, thanks ....

and if others who know this person, do not trust the person you are concerned with... I would take their comments into consideration, if you trust these other people

not sure if love is a factor, but sometimes .... one doesn't ' hear ' clearly when the heart is involved

this is of course, different from ' following one's heart ' .... there is a difference, it may be slight .....

* and speaking of signs... as I was trying to post this, I got the server is busy message, which could also be taken as a sign, I wasn't supposed to post this, lol ?

or maybe it wasn't a sign, just busy ?

Originally Posted by Adrienne

sometimes people have a tendency to give more credit to something being a sign, when it isn't necessarily so

If you are having feelings that something isn't right with this person you are connected with, listen to your feelings .... you don't need additional signs to tell you what you already are concerned about, if it isn't feeling right, then perhaps that in itself is a warning ?

I was looking up a few sites, basic clothing stores ... then when I went on a forum that wasn't ad free ... these shopping sites that I had previously looked at, appeared at the top of the page ...sure they might be cookie crumbs, but they for sure weren't a sign !

I would say don't worry about it being a sign, or go with White Warrior's suggestion.

Extremely valuable. Quoting b/c it's worth repeating. Adrienne and WhiteWarrior hit the nail on the head.

[Bluefonsy]

Thanks for replies, thanks adrienne.

I'm just going to have to disagree here, though you all seem very certain. I'm ok with being thought an impressionable airhead fruitloop

Also seems like I am being mean about this person, really I would have to go into more detail.
It's a you would have to be me thing

[Bluefonsy]

I did the experiment email, no spam, so if that's a pointer