What to do with negative energies?

I'm putting it here because I think it pertains to the loa somehow.

What I mean with negative energies is for instance someone does something that makes you mad. You're gonna have to deal with that energy in your body now.

I recently discovered you can send the energy back to them. So instead of going around with a bad feeling because of something they have done, they can have it instead. I have no idea if they actually get it but it feels better intending it so

I'm pretty sure you can use these energy to manifest as well but it's not very comfortable.

Of course you can use it to just go and beat them that would work too.

Any other suggestions?

Maybe manifesting that energy is still the best way to go? Because that way it will take physical form otherwise it will just keep tormenting people's energy body.

It does seem to go to send them to God as well.

[utopiandreamchild]

Its best to do away with negative energies and live a positive and healthy life. Love is the energy that attracts hate is the energy that denies. The greater your love the more blessed you will be universally. Love is the positive, healthy energy and is lawful, righteous and just . Hate is wrong and is a negative energy. Amen

[WildHairedWoman]

Originally Posted by utopiandreamchild

Its best to do away with negative energies and live a positive and healthy life. Love is the energy that attracts hate is the energy that denies. The greater your love the more blessed you will be universally. Love is the positive, healthy energy and is lawful, righteous and just . Hate is wrong and is a negative energy. Amen

If you used commas appropriately it would be easier to understand what you are saying. "Love is the energy that attracts, hate is the energy that denies." Not Love is the energy that attracts hate....

OK. off my grammar soap box.

Now to thrash you over your bliss bunny wishful thinking.

You cannot deny, repress, suppress or ignore negativity. Doing that puts you in a positivity deficit. You feel it, you express it, you move on. You never chastise people for "being negative", listen to what they are actually saying and consider the possibility that your reaction to what you consider negativity is a problem in you, not them. Denial will only make stuff come up closer and closer until it is in your face so that you have to acknowledge it.

If someone is constantly hurting you, you don't just let them, you speak up. That is not negativity, that is responding to a situation that needs to be addressed. If someone expresses how they feel, it is valid, don't negate their feeling because they make you uncomfortable. If they are constantly depressed, you can walk away "because they are too negative and you don't need that" or you can try to figure out how to help them. I know your choice in that will be dependent on how much you care about that person.

The whole world is made up of positive and negative ions, electrical charges etc. You have to learn balance.

[utopiandreamchild]

Originally Posted by WildHairedWoman

If you used commas appropriately it would be easier to understand what you are saying. "Love is the energy that attracts, hate is the energy that denies." Not Love is the energy that attracts hate....

OK. off my grammar soap box.

Now to thrash you over your bliss bunny wishful thinking.

You cannot deny, repress, suppress or ignore negativity. Doing that puts you in a positivity deficit. You feel it, you express it, you move on. You never chastise people for "being negative", listen to what they are actually saying and consider the possibility that your reaction to what you consider negativity is a problem in you, not them. Denial will only make stuff come up closer and closer until it is in your face so that you have to acknowledge it.

If someone is constantly hurting you, you don't just let them, you speak up. That is not negativity, that is responding to a situation that needs to be addressed. If someone expresses how they feel, it is valid, don't negate their feeling because they make you uncomfortable. If they are constantly depressed, you can walk away "because they are too negative and you don't need that" or you can try to figure out how to help them. I know your choice in that will be dependent on how much you care about that person.

The whole world is made up of positive and negative ions, electrical charges etc. You have to learn balance.

Negativity is unhealthy, knowing That, why would you choose it. Its senseless. Anger, Hate, Fear. All negative. Amen

[inavalan]

I believe that getting angry, no matter how justified you think it is, will materialize in your life, into more reasons to get angry, eventually fearful. So, don't do it!

V. Zeland, in his "Trunsurfing" book, likens those sources of negativity "pendulums". This is how he advises to deal with them:

Be prepared for the pendulums to provoke you. When you find yourself in an unpleasant situation or when you receive bad news, you are naturally thrown off balance. In the standard scenario, you ought to worry, be afraid, run away, lose heart or express your dissatisfaction or irritation. Now, do the opposite. Offer an abnormal response. Smash the script and try substitution: replace fear with confidence, despondency with enthusiasm, indignation with indifference and irritation with joy. The essence of the pendulum game is to pull you off balance. You have to break the rules of the game intentionally. Do whatever you like, just as long as it is not what people expect and then, victory will be yours.

Pendulums feed on human energy. For example, when something makes you angry, you express your furry and give your energy away to the pendulum. The pendulums provoke everything, which could potentially evoke strong, negative emotions. When you come across some unfortunate circumstance and react by getting irritated, there is a continuation and the negative situation develops in the same spirit, or new unpleasant situations arise. That is how the pendulum swings. You swing the pendulum yourself when you accept the game imposed on you. Behave differently. Either don’t react at all or respond in the opposite way altogether and then you will still the pendulum’s sway. Your task is to introduce a different game, your own game, by reacting in an abnormal manner. The sole principle here lies in the fact that when you swing with a different frequency to the resonant frequency, a dissonance is set up between you and the pendulum which causes the pendulum to stop swinging in relationship to your energy, as a result of which, it will leave you alone.

[RedEmbers]

Anger serves a function. All emotions serve a function.

It tells our body when we are percieving a threat.

Anger is a cover emotion for fear and powerlessness in a situation. Without fear and anger, we would not know love.

Where do you feel scared and powerless?

Once you can sit with that sense of powerlessness without resistance to it, you can ask yourself what loving actions you can align to and move yourself towards peace.

Anger only fuels more anger when we deny ourselves or feel denied the opportunity to delve into the experience of powerlessness underneath it.

Love is an action which can grow and move once that powerlessness has been acknowledged, accepted and allowed in presence as it moves within and through the body.

[WildHairedWoman]

Originally Posted by RedEmbers

Anger serves a function. All emotions serve a function.

It tells our body when we are percieving a threat.

Anger is a cover emotion for fear and powerlessness in a situation. Without fear and anger, we would not know love.

Where do you feel scared and powerless?

Once you can sit with that sense of powerlessness without resistance to it, you can ask yourself what loving actions you can align to and move yourself towards peace.

Anger only fuels more anger when we deny ourselves or feel denied the opportunity to delve into the experience of powerlessness underneath it.

Love is an action which can grow and move once that powerlessness has been acknowledged, accepted and allowed in presence as it moves within and through the body.

Thank you!

[Hilary]

Originally Posted by RedEmbers

Anger serves a function. All emotions serve a function.

It tells our body when we are percieving a threat.

Anger is a cover emotion for fear and powerlessness in a situation. Without fear and anger, we would not know love.

Where do you feel scared and powerless?

Once you can sit with that sense of powerlessness without resistance to it, you can ask yourself what loving actions you can align to and move yourself towards peace.

Anger only fuels more anger when we deny ourselves or feel denied the opportunity to delve into the experience of powerlessness underneath it.

Love is an action which can grow and move once that powerlessness has been acknowledged, accepted and allowed in presence as it moves within and through the body.

Agree that anger is a cover emotion. Often for pain, like grief and heartache. We feel angry when someone insults or disrespects us. This is on the way to the next emotion, which is often pain (you might cry after being angry for a while). Then, you're getting closer to your vortex. After pain, you will feel a little better, maybe getting into hope. From there, your hope builds into more and more positive feelings as you process the situation and learn from it. The wound they pierced in you, was already there! They just pointed out where you needed to heal yourself for you. You heal yourself by finding and fixing the thoughts that are self-loathing, and converting them to self-loving thoughts. After you process everything from the negative experience, you will be more whole. This gives you more positive energy for manifesting your dreams!