Release from a relationship

Juancho88$ · #1 10-03-2019, 01:16 AM

Hello
I have seen many Law of Attraction techniques on getting the relationship you want, but is there a technique to release from a relationship you don’t want?

Grace222 · #2 10-03-2019, 06:37 AM

Try affirmations. Post-it notes around the house or writing the affirmation 10-15-20 times. Some possibilities:
*I only attract healthy, loving relationships.
*I open my heart to peaceful, healthy love and know that I deserve it.
* I exhale negativity and inhale happiness.
*I am manifesting my dream partner.
*I deserve a relationship that reflects my true self worth.

I have been here before too. But, thankfully the illusions I had regarding an unhealthy relationship are gone, and I've moved on. I wish this for you. That wounded person is not worth your happiness.

#3 10-03-2019, 08:49 AM

It can be done without any "spiritual" technique. Be honest, find distractions. If it means telling someone you want to end it be as diplomatic as you can without lying. The only things you may need are protections from an emotional backlashes both from your and your respondent's sides. From your side it means understanding the source of your emotional ties and unwillingness to let go. There's no magic for that. It entails looking through your life to trace the source of your impasse - contemplation - and a way to change.

Getting control of your emotions would seem (to me) a big part of spiritual development.
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iamthat · #4 10-03-2019, 07:13 PM

You could apply the same principles of LOA to free yourself from this unwanted relationship.

Clearly visualise the desired outcome - you and the other person are now living separate lives without any ties or obligations to each other. Imagine this as if it has already happened. Imagine that the separation has been easy for both of you and that it has all happened with perfect timing. Imagine that both you and the other person are now happy and free. Feel love and gratitude to the other person for the time you have spent together. Acknowledge what you have learned from the other person and release them with gratitude to go their own way. Have faith that everything is working out for the best for both of you. Imagine that should you and this other person meet again in the future then everything will be easy and friendly between you.

Although this process involves another person, you are not using the LOA to manipulate that person. You want the relationship to end, so one way or another it is going to end. It could be a messy separation with anger and bitterness. Using the LOA to achieve the desired outcome may make it easier for both of you.

Good luck.

Peace.

Ambergris · #5 29-03-2019, 04:22 AM

Can I ask a question?

What's stopping you from simply walking away?

Juancho88$ · #6 01-04-2019, 04:05 PM

Honestly Fear. I will Have nowhere to go. I have been threatened if I leave I will lose everything.

iamthat · #7 01-04-2019, 09:27 PM

A difficult situation. But fear is not a good basis for remaining in a relationship. You are not happy where you are, but the alternative of losing everything seems worse. It sounds as if your partner is using this fear to control you. As long as you remain stuck you deny yourself the opportunity to create the life you want.

The Law of Attraction may help if you really use the power of visualisation, trust and gratitude to create some way out of this situation. Or you could try using Ho'oponopono on your partner, and he or she might become much more reasonable. Stranger things have happened.

Peace.

MissCreativeSpirit · #8 04-04-2019, 06:34 PM

Just focus elsewhere. The person will get the hint.

WildHairedWoman · #9 06-04-2019, 07:45 PM

I agree with Lorelyn. Just walk away. If you loose everything you have a good place to start over. If the person threatens your life you can get help for that. If you have friends that are not friends of the other person ask them for help. Work towards getting yourself independent. Face the fear and know that it is just a way to manipulate you.

WildHairedWoman · #10 06-04-2019, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by iamthat

A difficult situation. But fear is not a good basis for remaining in a relationship. You are not happy where you are, but the alternative of losing everything seems worse. It sounds as if your partner is using this fear to control you. As long as you remain stuck you deny yourself the opportunity to create the life you want.

The Law of Attraction may help if you really use the power of visualisation, trust and gratitude to create some way out of this situation. Or you could try using Ho'oponopono on your partner, and he or she might become much more reasonable. Stranger things have happened.

Peace.

iamthat,

Have you ever used Ho'oponopono or did you just buy the book or the seminar? I agree that a lot of what goes on around us is colored by what we think about the people we interact with, but there is no way any of us has control over anyone else unless they give it to us. And that is what Ho'oponopono is suggesting, that every other person can be changed, thoughts and actions, by our praying for them or what ever that author calls it. If it really worked then there would not be so much family struggle between religious people praying for their "loved" ones to be converted to their religion or to change some other aspect of their behavior. We have no right to expect someone else to change to match our picture of reality. That is not why any of us are here. I am not talking about boundaries, you have to have boundaries and walk away from people who don't respect them. I am talking about thinking you can "heal" someone or change the way someone thinks by thinking anything about them or at them (or writing it down or what ever that guy claims).