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Originally Posted by WantToBeHappy
I just don’t get it. Something is wrong somewhere. For the hard working good natured women like that to endure sooo much suffering doesn’t make sense.
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Hi there.
It's all about the surroundings, who don't respect her hard work. Like how you perceive, the surroundings of her fails to perceive the same way.
In case of Schizophrenic patient, they must not be counted as matured person itself. They are like a child. Though they are grown in numbers, their mind is still like a child with overwhelming emotions. They must be treated as a child. Even if you ask your mom how she looks her daughter, she will say this way too. It's the fate of schizophrenic patient to go through this non-matured Behavior. They got stuck with an age and the Mind does "like" being stuck in it and cannot come out instantly. If you spend time with them for months, you may come to learn how beautiful their world is. So, their words/behavior are all not to be accounted as a human itself but as a Playful child.
Coming back to your mother, if the surroundings can understand/rightly perceive her hardships, like how you understand her, only then she can be Peaceful.
But you know, this recognition from many is Impossible. Only person with broad mind (i.e. Unselfish) can recognize and give respect to the efforts of others, but not the selfish persons and the world is mostly of this selfish kind. Peace from recognition is unattainable.
As Disrespected, whether it is 'right' to throw away those surroundings and go to a lonely place or to a place where people would recognize/acknowledge them?
In my view, if someone is dependent on them, then like "GOD" though disrespected, they have to be caring no matter how they are being treated. That is Love. It's not two sided. No matter who the other person is, how they treat us, but to give them company if they want such, is the Kind-hearted person, and I see that your mother is living that life too. If she behaves in this same manner, both to 'her' sons & daughters and 'other' sons/daughters/father/etc.. and doesn't care how she is being treated, all her sufferings become LOVE or PURE Energy being spread to all her surroundings. GOD suffers by being beaten by their child. But doesn't care about those rejections/non-recognition and keep on giving the LOVE both to the devotees and non-devotees. She is a Living God.
Speak with her how she feels of being unrecognized or rejected. If she doesn't care of all those efforts and only willing to put many more such, then it's only your perception will change.
Ho Ho Ho..