Empaths vs Non Empaths

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Originally Posted by lilith

I wonder who would want to be with non empath? I've been with a npd/psychopath though, they target empaths and act empathy very well.

Originally Posted by William 辰

I want to be with non-empaths, if possible. Why? Let me put it this way:
Empathy will "destroy" a Lightworker.
By being an Empath, you're constantly taking in others people's energy. And whether it's negative energy or not, it completely messes up your own energy; the energy that makes you feel comfortable and at peace.
What you need as a Lightworker is energy that is happy, comfortable and full of love. And the best way to get it, is to block the energy of other people: So it is easier to connect to your higher self.
I know it's not easy. I was an Empath myself, and I am still just as sensitive as then. But I am working my way to being an Lightworker now, and I can definitely feel my emotions improving.
An Empath can change to a Lightworker and a Lightworker can change to an Empath, it's just a way of dealing with energy you encounter.

I wouldn't say a non-empath is the same as a psycho/sociopath but I would consider an E/non-E relationship as a good idea for pretty much this reason. It can be a lot of work to keep an E/E relationship going, as you would be aware that your partner thinks and feels just as much as you and it can be difficult in certain situations. An E/non-E can balance things out, ina way.