10 of Swords in what I will learn about...

[purplefinch]

I found a spread that focuses on, 'what's in (the individual's) heart'. Well, much of what occurred was true. I would like some questions to be answered, as they confuse me.
I use the Rider deck.

Card 6, question was: What I will learn from love.
I received the 10 of swords. Surely it cannot mean I will go into a relationship and get burned again? I think I already learned that. There must be another meaning to it, but I cannot gather what the 10 of swords means in this question.

Card 9, question: How I would like love to hit me.
King of Swords. I suppose it means the qualities of the King of Swords, but transformed into the way the love strikes me?

Card 11, question: what I can do to find the person
Judgement. I do not know what to say about this. Judgement seems like a difficult card to dispel in this sort of question.

And the last two cards, 12 and 13, were unexpected things in the near future. Those were, Queen of Swords and Ace of Swords.

I received many swords in this spread. If anyone would like to know all cards I received, I will post. In any case, I do appreciate the help in discerning these cards.

[Awakened Queen]

The 10 of Swords is telling you that no matter what you go through in matters of love, you will always prevail. Through heartbreak, you will find transformation. You will never let love destroy you. You'll hit the bottom, but you'll always come bobbing back up to the surface.

[purplefinch]

Awakened Queen, your insight is certainly accurate. I let logic take hold of my emotions the majority of time (but not allowing myself to be 'cold' either), to keep myself at a calm level. This helps to prevent faltering from some issue related to love, whether romantic or not. I understand it.

Thank you for your reply.