Helps with moods?

Are there any good crystals/ stones I can buy for my friend that would help with sadness or just ignoring mean people around her? Thanks in advance

[Russell Kersey-Smith]

For sadness try red jasper or sodalite, for ignoring mean people I will see what I can find.

Thanks for the help c:

[Russell Kersey-Smith]

I am not sure what crystal to suggest for ignoring mean people, but I can suggest crystals for diffusing and protecting against negativity around your friend, and that is green aventurine. also try keeping a large chunk of rose quartz as this is a crystal of unconditional love and in my own experience helps attract nice people into your life.

Wow thanks for the help! I need to go shopping haha

Try black tourmaline. It's a protective stone, absorbing negative energy, that has strong grounding qualities. It balances emotions and I have also found results in it balancing out of my mood when I am angry or tense. It's also physically vitalizing and intellectually stimulating.

Thankyou ❤️

[No-thing-ness]

Maybe try self inquiry. Question your thoughts and emotions and those thoughts/emotions which are of negative origin do not attach to. This is what works for me. If I do attach to a negative thought or emotion then I have succumbed to my ego! But their is no such thing as failure, it simply gives one the opportunity to try again!

You have a body - you are not the body
You have a mind - you are not the mind
You have thoughts - you are not those thoughts
You have emotions - you are not those emotions.

You are Consciousness navigating the physical realm via your temporary body/mind mechanism.

This world is truly a stage!!!

ACTION!!!

[kristyjnh]

Seconding Black Tourmaline. It doesn't absorb, it repels. It's a very protective stone, especially for people who are easily influenced or affected by others (It helps me a lot with my Social Anxiety). With the right frame of mind you can learn to shoot whatever comes at you right back.

One thing - some people don't like it as it's very strong, so people sensitive to vibrations might be better off with Tourmalated Quartz, a Clear Quartz with Black Tourmaline rods inside. The Clear Quartz softens the energy somewhat.

[FairyCrystal]

Black tourmaline might be good indeed, maybe combined with the rose quartz to add the love vibe.
As far as I know it does absorb negativity though, that's why it needs to be cleansed often (pure vinegar for 12-24 hrs)

Tourmalinated quartz is a nice alternative, love that!