How do I heal after this?

[~Lioness~]

Today it hurts a lot. Everything hurts a lot. I dont believe in god anymore. If god was real there would be a reason for so much suffering.

I realized theres still a part of me that feels chaotic, and I need to heal it somehow. I dont even know how to. I have this warped perception of love, that all loves will hurt because no matter how intensely I felt love for the twin flame, it was never reciprocated. If a twin flame can reject me then everyone will, right? That's what I believe. It sucks, I need a new belief.

I wish I'd never met her. I was happy, I was fine.
Am I missing something? Is getting better ever a guarantee in life? And advice?

[iamthat]

What makes you think that this person was your twin flame?

Do not confuse emotional need with Soul connection.

Peace

[Native spirit]

I would have to agree with what iamthat has said,


Namaste

[FairyCrystal]

How you heal you ask. By stopping to feel sorry for yourself. Sounds harsh, but it's true.
Putting all blame outside of you, now it's God who did everything wrong in your life while all that happened is you got hurt by falling for the wrong person for you.
Take responsibility. It's okay to hurt, but if you want to heal you have to stop victimising yourself.
Now you have a warped view of love and life, and of course it's her fault, and god's, not yours. Sorry to say, but grow up!
So stop revelling in your sorrow, if it wasn't even reciprocated it wasn't a TF nor love but infatuation. If you cannot even handle someone not being interested in you how can you ever expect to handle a relationship?
Maybe you should get a coach or therapist in to help find some healthy self-esteem.

[~Lioness~]

Just forget it. None of any of the replies were helpful on how to heal. Ridiculous. Also, I know for a fact she is a twin flame, I didnt go into the details of our relationship cause it's pointless but if I had then maybe you can form a correct opinion.

Also, fairycrystal you were helpful to me a while ago, so thanks for that, but I dont need the rude remarks so dont comment on any of my posts anymore, thanks. I have nothing to learn from you.

[Anala]

Dear Blue,

True friends tell you how they see it, not how you want them to see it. You asked for opinions and they gave you their honest opinions.

Take it or leave it, no big deal.

(Sorry, I know, off topic)

[~Lioness~]

Actually I asked for advice.

7 Ways To Get Over Your Fear of Rejection And Achieve Lasting Love.

[FairyCrystal]

Sorry you took it that way.
Unfortunately, if you want to overcome heartache you have to snap out of the current state of being, feeling, thinking. If you don't, you won't get to healing.
You simply have to decide -and preferably also feel- that you're fed up and really want to heal.
And you do have to stop blaming others/external forces -which is victimising yourself-, and look at what truly happened and also look for the gems you got from the situation.
The latter will help make it softer, and eventually you will get to feeling grateful for the experience because of these gems.

So in essence the same as I said before. Healing from heartache is never fun and it takes time. If you do the above, if you are ready for doing that, you will start to feel better every day though.

sadly there is no easy way out, heartbreak is devastating, a crises if anything else, a grief.There is no time table to it either, depending upon if you get caught on one step and can't get further. I think there are books on grief and to me it is the same as heartbreak considering all the different steps one have to go through. You will heal more and more along the way.

On a spirit level I believe that even some of our enemies are our loved ones, only temporarily programmed to trigger, so on a spirit level I think your twin flame does love you.

Here is a link https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-5-s...oss-and-grief/