Why guy uses my name alot when communicating?

[sven etc.]

Hi, I experienced the same. From out of nowhere a simple "quick chat" that went on from wake up until bed time contained my first name in almost every 2nd sentence. Never before ( and we chatted for 6 month or so). I do not know or understand the purpose. I read my name and actually started to hate it . It seemed too formal for being close friends. Yet is was my name but to me it is " cold" or almost "blunt" - I only use the name of someone if I want an direct and immediate reaction or response, get that person alerted and want to get on a personal level on the spot ( friendly or to point something out ). Or to greet someone that is a co-worker or someone not very close to me but valued by me.

[TXGemini]

Originally Posted by Green.Heals

Respectful

Not everyone is.

I hadn't thought of it that way. Thanks Green.Heals. He does believe in respect. And I do too. It just seemed strange to see it in text so much. When I reply, I usually use his initials. Hmmm, that does put a different spin on it.

[TXGemini]

Originally Posted by sven etc.

Hi, I experienced the same. From out of nowhere a simple "quick chat" that went on from wake up until bed time contained my first name in almost every 2nd sentence. Never before ( and we chatted for 6 month or so). I do not know or understand the purpose. I read my name and actually started to hate it . It seemed too formal for being close friends. Yet is was my name but to me it is " cold" or almost "blunt" - I only use the name of someone if I want an direct and immediate reaction or response, get that person alerted and want to get on a personal level on the spot ( friendly or to point something out ). Or to greet someone that is a co-worker or someone not very close to me but valued by me.

To me, it just made me curious if I was missing something in the subtext. True, he didn't use my name that much in person, but on the phone when he was here on the job and now in text he does. I may be just overanalyzing. That may just be his personality quirk.

[dianamadalina]

I remember a voice that is calling my name. Used to be shy about the love I had for her. As if she came again with each other.Was on the street , had telepathic toughts. Not quick will go through this. Feeding from memories. "was online 4 hours ago" signed out.

[utopiandreamchild]

Maybe done out of love?. Amen

[dianamadalina]

Sometimes I want that person to pronounce my name like herself is doing only.

[Ewwerrin]

I guess since he is using your name, he is being very direct with you. So you can use that as your excuse, to be very direct with him aswell. And tell him like "I can't stop thinking about you, and every little detail of every little thing that you do, as I am madly in love with you, and I wanna get married with you, right NOW. RIGHT NOW. WE SHOULD NOW DO THE DEED. EMMEDIATELY AS SOON AS POSSIBLE ASAP URGENTLY NOW. KISS ME. I MEAN IT DO IT. WE ARE MARRIED. IF YOU DONT KISS ME RIGHT NOW IM GONNA GET A DIVORCE. RIGHT!!! NOOWW!!!!!!!!"

And then next time you can call him your husband. IF you want that! Otherwise just tell him to BUZZ OFF. Just be direct and tell him to "GET DA ### OUDA HEEEYH!" But you gotta say it with an italian accent. Otherwise it doesn't work. And they will think you are serious business and then they will stick around to do some serious business with you. Which is also an option... Ofcourse.
But if you really want him to buzz off, you gotta say it with an italian accent, combined with an extra pessimistic tone of voice. "Get da ### ouda hiiiiyyy..." And don't even look at him while you say it. Say it like you're really bored. You're soooo pessimistic about him that it becomes complete boredom... Like you're so bored, you can hardly even summon the desire to complete the sentence while you're saying it. Like "Get da, # ouda hiiyyh..."

Like it is the last thing you will ever say, it is your final breath. Like you're so tired of him that you just have one last sentence you will speak before you will literally withdraw your consciousness out of your physical body and leave planet earth forever: "Get... da... fo*... oudaaaheeeeeyhhhhhh...."

[utopiandreamchild]

Least he'll be more inclined to not forget your name. Amen

[sven etc.]

Originally Posted by TXGemini

. I may be just overanalyzing.

I don't think so. ...It is ( at least to me to get a straight forward message to you by getting attention calling you by name all the time The attention on my end was there 24/7 . However it was obviously not the intent. I will never know....

[Ewwerrin]

yeah names are strange things. Vibrational sounds I get familiar with, like life is a vibration I get familiar with. But once I get familiar with another vibration, the old one is nowhere to be found. I cannot even remember that I had forgotten something.