Did she actually do it?

[lostsoul13]

So I had a dream of my soulmate I was radiant in beauty and the dream would zoom in on that radiant
But there was another guy in my dream that looked like me and my soulmate said it was just me but just to squash my insecurities-

I morphed into a more masculine self as a result …

Me and my soulmate were kissing and it was really good to finally get to that stage in our dream logs -

But a nurse from my hospital that there’s a little chemistry with-

Shows up and isn’t exactly romantic inclined but interested with a flirt.

She falls down the stairs and apparently my soulmate did it-

I spent ages ( dreams being dreams on the emphasis) trying to see if I saw her do it which it seemed she did but the dream was spent trying to figure that out..

She was apparently dead..

The dream ended after all the emphasis on things straining and distorting the kissing- we seemed to wanted to go back to that??

I can’t work it out what the nurse represents???

[Maisy]

The theme I see is romantic love verses divine love. Romanic love is about owning, self-centered pleasure, and control. Things like that. Romanic love is human love, ego is involved. Romantic love always has a potential for suffering and hurt because we truly cannot control another. Also the other is just as pleasure seeking and self-centered as we are so they can cheat or leave us for somebody else. That leads to so much suffering.

Divine love is unselfish unconditional love. It can be like a love for a child by a parent or the love of a pet. Divine love seeks nothing for oneself, it is only for helping another. For me, the introduction of the "nurse" and a soulmate that pushed her down stairs represents a tragic expression of jealousy. So to me, the dream is showing the love is not the highest unselfish love.