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Originally Posted by Molearner
Yes…..so if one has second thoughts about what you call an event, he/she can have additional experiences? Essentially you seem to be indicating that one event has the potential of producing multiple experiences within one person ? And does the most recent experience negate one’s previous experiences ? Or do they still count as your experience of that event ?
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There's an old adage about a man who, while walking in the dark, sees a piece of rope, thinks it's a snake and gets scared of being bitten. So at that time he's creating an emotional response - fear on this case - to what he perceives as a snake. What he's actually seeing is what little human squinty eyes can see, his survival instincts kick in along with all kinds of unconscious stuff. Because he's been brought up in a country where dangerous snakes are rife, the possibility of it being a snake is higher than it would be if he lived in the middle of a big city. That comes into the equation too, because there are a number of different factors involved in turning that physical lack into a snake.
Someone gets a flashlight on the snake and it becomes a rope.
The event itself remains the same but what changes is our perceptions of the event, and it's those perceptions that stay with us. What we experienced at the time is our perceptions of what happened at the time and that becomes our reality. Shining a flashlight on the snake is a different event and that becomes our reality too. Our realities are 'updated' and hopefully we learn from the experience, and the experience becomes the memories of our perceptions.
However, those memories can become just as real as if we're experiencing them again, in the present. So to answer your questions -
"And does the most recent experience negate one’s previous experiences ?"
We can forget the events experiences and the experiences but their effects can remain, often the effects of our childhood experiences remain long after we've grown up, as psyschology will tell you.
"Or do they still count as your experience of that event ?"
When you're reliving your past? Coming to a realisation is a different 'event'.