Should I worry ?....

I was once shown something during visit dream that I could not have known to have been in the future but the bottom line was that this too shall pass, and it turned out alright, not to worry.

[Miss Hepburn]

Originally Posted by asearcher

...and it turned out alright, not to worry.

But not everything does turn out alright. People die or still have to have something amputated.
So that phrase is not very comforting.

Point is: Mourn or grieve or panic at that time, not before.
Does no good. :)
However, it is a habit that can be hard to break ...with every Tom, D*ck and Newscaster each morning
saying the word 'worry', as if it is ''the thing to do''!
It reinforces a useless belief into the subconscious mind.
And is exactly what a great teacher and all the teachers say not to do.
But, I've said enough for the day on worry.

[Anala]

Originally Posted by Elfin

Oh dear Anala...Thank you.... How uplifting is that ??....
And again, wise words ..
You know my problem?
I never practice what I preach !!!!!

I might have to invite that choir to Church of Elfin to sing....
( Church of Elfin of course being in the middle of anywhere )
But I'm seeing them singing this in the middle of a wild flower meadow....

beautiful! meet you there!

Originally Posted by Miss Hepburn

But not everything does turn out alright. People die or still have to have something amputated.
So that phrase is not very comforting.

Point is: Mourn or grieve or panic at that time, not before.
Does no good. :)
However, it is a habit that can be hard to break ...with every Tom, D*ck and Newscaster each morning
saying the word 'worry', as if it is ''the thing to do''!
It reinforces a useless belief into the subconscious mind.
And is exactly what a great teacher and all the teachers say not to do.
But, I've said enough for the day on worry.

I agree you shouldn't worry because it does no good. But my point was that I don't think loved ones who has come to the right place in heaven make visitation dreams with bad messages in them that one won't overcome. When it happened to me I was finding comfort in the dream because I "knew" that it was going to turn out alright, while others didn't.

The only nightmare I have had when I thought the message was bad - was that I dreamt something awful would happen so in reality when I was to repeat what happened in the dream I did the opposite, in fear of that it otherwise would turn out like it did in the dream. All I can say is that it saved us from getting hurt, and I think it was the good side sending me that nightmare, to warn me, if you don't do this then this is going to happen, that sort of thing. And it worked =)

The good side send good messages, at least my experience tell me this, so there is no need to worry (even if you shouldn't worry regardless)

[Native spirit]

My grandmother always told me Dont worry about things you cant change things always have a way of sorting themselves out
I get visitations from spirit very often,

Another thing i say to people is take that boulder of worry from around your neck and let if float away.
you will be amazed at how much lighter you feel


Namaste

Never waiting for the other shoe to drop, always ready to catch it.

Can freakin' relate !

Originally Posted by Miss Hepburn

But not everything does turn out alright. People die or still have to have something amputated.
So that phrase is not very comforting.

Point is: Mourn or grieve or panic at that time, not before.
Does no good. :)
However, it is a habit that can be hard to break ...with every Tom, D*ck and Newscaster each morning
saying the word 'worry', as if it is ''the thing to do''!
It reinforces a useless belief into the subconscious mind.
And is exactly what a great teacher and all the teachers say not to do.
But, I've said enough for the day on worry.

Thank you all for your comments of support.
I can relate to all of them.

The very clear, vivid part of the visit from my mother-in-law was so very strong.
Everything in the background became a "blur".... But she was showing me 3 perfectly formed fresh cauliflowers !! I know that sounds daft, but I know I was supposed to decipher the message from those !... They were the focal point.
And they were lovely !
All about the same size, the leaves were not dark or withered...they were young and quite pale and fresh.. but when you looked inside at the cauliflower, the florets were the purest of white....
I can only think that of course I have 3 sons all quite close in age..or it portrayed 3 Angels.....
Time I suppose will tell.
As a parent I do of course worry about my boys...
But not enough to usually evoke a visitation, never mind 3 !!.

[CosmicWonder]

Strength and kindness to you dear Elfin..

Originally Posted by CosmicWonder

Strength and kindness to you dear Elfin..

... Thank you precious one.
... Do you ever go horse riding ??????
... Don't even ask me why I asked that !!!!!!!!!

[CosmicWonder]

I won’t ask :’) but remember a conversation about something with horseriding. thanks Elfin you’re funny