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Originally Posted by bobjob

Thankfully the uplifting sittings are the ones I find I think about the most, and I try not to think too often of the ones that weren't.

But that's your nature though, and that's not a criticism. And someone that hears a particularly bad message about the future might not want to hear that kind of message - I certainly wouldn't - might be just as uplifted because they have hope that they're going to come through it. And sometimes people don't want to hear that their laundry needs doing but they need to hear it anyway.

In my experience, Spirit gives people what they need and sometimes that's a metaphorical kick in the pants.

Originally Posted by Miss Hepburn

Let's ask bobjob, cuz that $ topic has been discussed so many times here.
Now, another ''should'' has been brought up re NOT making a career.
Can you, bobjob...make a comment? Should it continue or be dropped?

I've started a new thread on this subject as i don't see bobjob(Sorry bobjob),an
authority on this subject!

[BigJohn]

Originally Posted by Miss Hepburn

They are giving me their time...if they charge that is just fine with me.
Their time is worth it, they have expenses same as anyone.
I don't think this is what you wanna talk about, bobjob...but, once brought up I gave my opinion.

If you look at how the word Medium was first used, that Medium got paid for his Mediumship.

It's like paying a fortune for going to church and as my thread has been stopped for personal issues it is time for me to have a break from this forum.

[bobjob]

Originally Posted by hazada guess

Jeez everybody knows what folk expect when they go to visit a Medium. Whether they get it or not is a different matter altogether. ps.......The best mediums don't charge.

really? interesting.....

[bobjob]

Originally Posted by Miss Hepburn

I don't think this is what you wanna talk about, bobjob....

You're right....

[bobjob]

Originally Posted by Miss Hepburn

Let's ask bobjob, cuz that $ topic has been discussed so many times here.
Now, another ''should'' has been brought up re NOT making a career.
Can you, bobjob...make a comment? Should it continue or be dropped?

Did you notice I didn't say in this thread what mediums should or shouldn't do...? I only made points about what I expect from mediums and mediumship.

Whether they charge, whether they manage to make just enough to live on or whether they make a fortune as a career wasn't anything to do with what I wrote. It doesn't mean I don't hold clear opinions but this thread isn't about my opinions on that aspect. blessings

[bobjob]

Originally Posted by Greenslade

Mediums are not there to meet people's expectations .....

That won't stop people having expectations.....

[bobjob]

Originally Posted by Greenslade

I'd suggest a discussion on what's right and wrong as regards delivering messages, because that seems to be the bone of contention you have.

Lead on.....

[bobjob]

Originally Posted by Greenslade

But that's your nature though, and that's not a criticism.

I absolutely don't view it as criticism and see it as a compliment because it's been a long hard journey getting there. blessings