Is there a rule I could/should follow?

I did not know where to place this but it is close to mediumship even if I don't see myself as a medium. If not appropriate please move it.

So my question is this: Is there a rule I should follow if/when I sense, know, experience something about someone?

This is something that makes me insecure. I am not open all the time, as in I can't yet control it the way I would like to, it comes, if it comes. What I can say with it, so far, weight in is that I either had to have little sleep and stress or I have to be more calm than I am usually, and then it is happening.

Had had mix results from it (been right, but the responses has been mixed and I regret having said something in one case).

It has happened that I suddenly "hear", but not hear, but still a voice in my head that can say something and then I think OK then. For instance it can be about telling me you should go now (and move physically from one area to another) and when I had done that and returned something really bad had happened while I was away. (I would of course not do anything if it said to me to do something bad).

Any advice would be very much appreciated. I don't ever want to place someone in trouble or make someone feel unease by saying something if I shouldn't.

[Native spirit]

This is where a spiritulist church would help you or a spiritulist group,
saying something to someone that you have seen heard etc,
you have to be careful. the person may not take it well.
you would benefit from going to a spiritulist church as they could help you recognise the signs


Namaste

[BigJohn]

Originally Posted by asearcher

So my question is this: Is there a rule I should follow if/when I sense, know, experience something about someone?
This is something that makes me insecure. I am not open all the time, as in I can't yet control it the way I would like to, it comes, if it comes. What I can say with it, so far, weight in is that I either had to have little sleep and stress or I have to be more calm than I am usually, and then it is happening.

Native Spirit's advice is sound advice.

What you wrote as to what helps bring it on is interesting. Like everything, having a quiet mind seems to be a key to how 'things work'. As for me, walking meditations, seem to do the 'trick'.

[Jillity]

Yes, go to the spiritualist church and talk to people there. They may have some informal meetings where you can just go along and chat to them. Make sure you are always in control and not just doing as they say. If I heard a voice telling me to go and stand somewhere else I would want to know why and I would most likely ask them to leave. Don't just obey them.

Thank you all very much, Native Spirit, Big John and Jillity =)

[bobjob]

Originally Posted by asearcher

I did not know where to place this but it is close to mediumship even if I don't see myself as a medium. If not appropriate please move it.
So my que...........
Any advice would be very much appreciated.

Being aware of details whose source you don't understand, not knowing if details are accurate but still passing them on is irresponsible and may be upsetting for the recipient - even if YOU believe they will not be upsetting. Not everyone is comfortable receiving information from even an experienced medium and a medium with integrity and experience will understand that. At this stage what's happening to you is not mediumship.

If you genuinely want to help others then seek help to learn how.

If you don't want to go that far but would like to learn how to stop unwanted intrusion into your mind seek help how to achieve that - you may not be able to do it without help.

Yes, thank you BobJob, I agree, I risk having it wrong and for it even if it is correct to be terribly intrusive so I don't want to do that, (there has been experiences I have had that I have not posted on above or elsewhere on this forum as it will give away too much). I agree with you 100% =)

[Molearner]

Originally Posted by asearcher

So my question is this: Is there a rule I should follow if/when I sense, know, experience something about someone?

Asearcher,

Perhaps you have the gift of discernment…..if so be careful with it like a psychiatrist is with whatever he discerns….

[BigJohn]

Asearcher,

If a Spirit is trying to contact you, they probably will not give up. They might even try other methods. Just pay attention and you might get your answer(s).

Next, try having a one on one communication. Not as easy as said.

[zastrakoza]

Originally Posted by asearcher

So my question is this: Is there a rule I should follow if/when I sense, know, experience something about someone?

Asearcher,

Yes, the rule is love. If you receive information and are not sure how to handle it, ask yourself first...Why am I receiving this information?

We are not here to teach, but to learn. What am I learning from this information?

Is this information beneficial to anyone else?

If so, how can I offer it with love and kindness?

Many times, we see the truth, but it is not for us to speak. We learn from the lesson we observe.

If we are able to offer information in love and kindness, we are very very gentle. And we also see how the other will respond.

Rest in your knowing. Allow the spirit to do its work. You are the conduit, not the master. Allow the master to lead.

Blessings,
Z