Letter To My Twin

Hi again ! ��

I'm happy to see I could give you comfort. And I'll be more than happy to continue being there for if you would have any questions for me. As for being in other relationships, well we both are ! That was my initial question for the forum. See we are both in long term relathionships, and I just only saw the synchonicity the other day.

So I was born 1990/07/26, and she was on 1991/07/24. That's sweet but I also saw that : my long term relathionship started 2012/02/17 and her's 2013/02/15. I was astonished when I saw that. Exactly a year less two days, I mean is that a pattern ? Anyway for now it brought me peace !

[Flameseeker]

Sounds like a catalyst, a false twin or divine compliment to me sir 😉 and it would seem it has now done its job

Originally Posted by Flameseeker

Sounds like a catalyst, a false twin or divine compliment to me sir 😉 and it would seem it has now done its job

Hello !

Thank you for your concern ! But I already have the answer to that, it's unconditional love, everlasting and still to this day. And I've met my false twin flame, so yeah, I'm covered.

May you find inner peace.

[Mr_Determined]

Originally Posted by Flameseeker

Sounds like a catalyst, a false twin or divine compliment to me sir 😉 and it would seem it has now done its job

Thanks Flameseeker;

It's easy to be swallowed up by our ego to say that twins who don't come together are either catalysts, dark, divine compliment, false, karmic, narcissist. Or whatever! I'm tired of seeing these labels.
If that then is the case, then we would also have to assume the divine purpose of the universe became one big prefabricated hoax, that we are all just lying to ourselves why our TF was destined to be brought to us, and for what purpose.

Regardless of all the hype, misconceptions circulating on Google about the TF journey from a myriad of ego based charlatans presenting their statements for thirsty seekers of knowledge without discernment of their own TF journey to be self-consumed with hysterical b*s, if anyone buy's into that sort of thing.

The ego trip wants to take us for a euphoric ride on suggests us to disprove our own being on this journey for all the wrong reasons, it's clearly not for the fainthearted that we are forced to look at every aspect of ourselves that we wished we didn't have to face/reveal or deal with. To be sincerely honest with ourselves and take full responsibility head on for every inner wounding that still needs to be addressed.

Personally, it's a work in progress and most probably always will be.

Letting go the ego!

[FairyCrystal]

Originally Posted by Mr_Determined

Thanks Flameseeker;

It's easy to be swallowed up by our ego to say that twins who don't come together are either catalysts, dark, divine compliment, false, karmic, narcissist. Or whatever! I'm tired of seeing these labels.
If that then is the case, then we would also have to assume the divine purpose of the universe became one big prefabricated hoax, that we are all just lying to ourselves why our TF was destined to be brought to us, and for what purpose.

Now that is b*s. People like narcissists, non-TFs and whatever else you mentioned do exist, and they exist with a purpose too: to help other people grow so at some point they will be ready for a healthy interdependent relationship and wonderful lifepath in which they fulfil their Soul purpose.
Most aren't ready for that yet and since we are now going from 3D to 5D at quite the speed people have to wake up to be able to tag along. Which means that 'tougher masters' will be needed, like narcissists and so on.

And you make it sound like everyone is supposed to get together with their TF according to Divine plan. This is not the case. We only need a critical mass to help mankind through the enormous shift from 3D to 5D.
Yes, at some point everyone will resonate and live at a much higher level, but as it is most people aren't nearly ready for that yet.
There's a tremendously large group of people who are struggling to get to a higher vibration. Some of these are in actual fact Lightworkers, the ones who have incarnated on Earth many times and have gotten 'damaged' by these lives so much that they became afraid to step into their Light.
That's why a whole lot of other Lightworkers has come in who barely had lives here -if at all- to help us make it through the shift and to get us to wake up.
Some people have chosen before incarnating to fulfil the task as Twin Flames, because this is needed on the planet AND because their souls are ready for that.
Twin Flames are Souls that are advanced so they are equipped to handle the task at hand without getting stuck in the issues that so many are still struggling with.
That's how you can quite easily spot a wannabe Twin Flame, when you pick up from their stories they are no way advanced. The depth of their issues tells the story.

The not so pleasant relationships like with a narcissist are to help people wake up. Most people leave a narcissist and come out much much stronger. Not all, but most.
These people are not aside of the Divine plan, they're part of it.

[FallingLeaves]

Originally Posted by Mr_Determined

Personally, it's a work in progress and most probably always will be.

the whole point of the matter?

[Mr_Determined]

Thank you for your enlightening post FairyCrystal,

You made a valid point, I must also admit that I have no hard feelings toward you for stating your opinion in which you were entitled to.

There's a lot to take in, and of course many things that pop up from day to day that I'm not prepared to face the reality of even though I'll have to, eventually!

[Mr_Determined]

*Resurrected Update*

It's been quite some time since I've lasted posted here, much has changed in the last - almost two years. I have since been helping a majority of young couples find their true potential for what they really desire from their relationships to prosper and gaining new friendships along the way.

When I stand back, I say to myself; Wow, what a miraculous journey, I never thought it would lead to this!

Being that little bit of an inspiration to others, and taking that selfless approach as a cure to all ailments to not desire anything in return and simply walk away! Because deep down you know you have the knowledge and wisdom that it won't serve you any purpose for what has already been achieved/experienced.

As for my TF/mirror image and I, we are still strong for one another, just still not the complete package! The dynamics have changed dramatically and now I'm going through all the pain/turmoil I had put her through, I have cried, helped others and cried more. It's rough and tough stuff, but all for a good cause that the day is drawing closer than ever before, that day will soon be. (Like crossing your middle finger over your index finger and hoping for the best possible outcome).

That is all I have for now.

Thanks for reading to all of you soul searching beautiful people of this forum.

[Mr_Determined]

Turns out I was very wrong about all of this!

Having just scraped through the bottom of a barrel after 13+ years of her obsession or what better way to describe her demonic possession, I've now broken free from the chains and shackles of this deception.

I had recently raised some very intriguing questions, all of which I received a very cold response of silence for which clearly indicates that she doesn't love me like she even portrayed!
Then I became accused and manipulated into believing all of this was my fault.

Throughout many years of my growing, learning and self-discovery/improvement, the interesting points I found out about this person was that she loves her family/friends, loves her self-absorbed sinful lifestyle, loves her pride, and loves being a serial monogamist more than she could have loved me. How selfishly insecure!

I became her circus fool for falling into this prefabricated snare of repulsion, All the while among her secrecy she couldn't even disclose to me her first name when I kindly asked on multiple occasions.

Do I hate this person, seriously not. (To hate someone is to commit murder in your heart). But I sure am gutted that so many years is down the sewer, on a merry-go-round chasing signs and synchronizations that were never meant to be. Because the main chemistry for it all to happen was simply out the door from the start.

Whats worse is now knowing I am a full time, stage 4 cancer patient with little as a year to live. It's been one of the most difficult things to accept, the last thing I want is to make enemies with those who I thought had my back and were going to offer just a little support.

Recently, I met one of the most adorable and sweetest young nurses who made me feel like I was really worth a person! We talked and exchanged laughs every time I arrived for specialist treatment.
Even though she's in a relationship. That's not the point!

I had opened her world up by offering unconditional love.

She returned to me after my next appointment with tears in her eyes and a smile that lit up the room. She gently rubbed my shoulder and expressed to me how she wished if things would be different. I told her that doing this was not about us, I did this to show that she too can be a beacon of light who now has the gift to share with her partner and all of the people she cares about.

That's LVE!

It serves me great comfort and relief that something so small can make a huge impact in someone else's life. If only my TF and I could have been more gentle and patient with each other, we most certainly wouldn't be in this mess!

[RedEmbers]

I am sorry to hear about your stage four cancer, Mr. Determined. I cannot begin to imagine what that must be like to go through, however, for some reasons I can also strongly identify with many aspects of your post.

I met someone many, many years ago who expressed unconditional love to me, which saved me many years later from my own death. It takes courage to love others in this way, knowing that in this life, their is a guarantee of death, physical and other transitions of life.
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In regards to the person you speak about: It has been my experience (personal and observation of others) Cycles of drama, stemming from abuse can become addictive and their is scientific evidence to back this up. For anybody connected to a person going through these cycles, it may help to understand that we are dealing with an addict and we are often addicts ourselves to keep trying in these relationships; the addiction is to the chemicals which the brain release from the up's and downs of the drama. It is an obsession in fact, as you mentioned. I am mentioning this here, just in case it may assist to liberate anyone who may need some liberation.

I am a recovering addict in this way.

The person who saved me, showed me unconditional love - I then for some time became addicted to him as my source of self. They, however, did their part, loving me, to slowly guide me to healing myself. This is all from a few months, sharing our lives on earth together, never to see one another again.

I have become addicted to various relationships over my life and addicted to the pain and suffering originating from my core wound of abandonment.


Many twin flame relationships I read about are nothing more then addictive bonds, stemming from a recreation of trauma and once the chemical addiction is understood for what it is, the work can be done to release the patterns, to adjust to a life of love which may feel unusual and even a little bit boring for a while, to the addicted brain. If people read about the cycles of trauma bonds, it will become quite evident how they mirror the cycles of twin flame experiences in varying degrees.


It takes a lot of time, awareness and devotion though, much like committing to an exercise routine. Results will not be seen if the efforts are not maintained consistently by the addict. For me, knowing this, has let me off the hook with my own attraction to other addicts.

I personally don't feel that these relationship patterns will cease on planet earth until everybody on the planet reconnects with true self, true source and lives and connect from that place.