Healer taking on another’s emotions

[Unseeking Seeker]

Originally Posted by Patrycia-Rose

I believe it’s fairly well known that an energy / spiritual healer can take on a client’s emotions. Has anyone experienced this and any ideas on how to stop this from happening.

That’s simple. The healer is not the doer but only a conduit for the divine energy to flow through, being present in this density, in this mind-body vessel. Thus, the healer is not attached to outcomes, simply flowing with ease, like the morning breeze.

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by Patrycia-Rose

I believe it’s fairly well known that an energy / spiritual healer can take on a client’s emotions. Has anyone experienced this and any ideas on how to stop this from happening.

You can only take on what you yourself still hold within you in some way.

If you’re flowing freely as you, unimpeded, then the external flows through you in the same way.

So it’s always good to notice yourself and what taking that on in you means to you.

You can do all kinds of protective measures, but the reality is, if your not consciously releasing your part, you’ll shelve and often times, I’ve seen where eventually, it all landed on the lap of the one, dismissing their part in this shared space.

Most people are oblivious to their engagements with each other. It doesn’t matter what space shared you’re in, being more aware of you in it, supports you to notice everything going on inside you. Be aware more consistently of you.

Most humans are in behavioural entanglements with each other. Many unaware of what this means as ‘life interacting with you’.

[Gatekeeper517]

Originally Posted by JustBe

You can only take on what you yourself still hold within you in some way.

If you’re flowing freely as you, unimpeded, then the external flows through you in the same way.

So it’s always good to notice yourself and what taking that on in you means to you.

You can do all kinds of protective measures, but the reality is, if your not consciously releasing your part, you’ll shelve and often times, I’ve seen where eventually, it all landed on the lap of the one, dismissing their part in this shared space.

Most people are oblivious to their engagements with each other. It doesn’t matter what space shared you’re in, being more aware of you in it, supports you to notice everything going on inside you. Be aware more consistently of you.

Most humans are in behavioural entanglements with each other. Many unaware of what this means as ‘life interacting with you’.

This, and the other posts, make some sense to me. My question is what if we are just flawed. Not in a judgement way, just as a "it is what it is" way. Like a person with a bad leg walking.

I have trouble removing myself from myself as it is. How can I let another's shard through/go? I can't remove the my limp as it is. I have trouble tricking myself until it works. I have doubt.

[JustBe]

You can just accept what is as it is but some things do require acknowledgment to know what’s within that ‘what is’ abd whether that ‘what is’ is something no longer required.

Things shift and change without force all the time. Life has its own ways of revealing.

But if you’re consciously seeking to just be more aware of you in life, there is a conscious approach to yourself.

Dealing with stuff directly means you’re noticing yourself from within. Only you
know you. If you’re outwardly focused only, you’ll overlook inwardly.

For me personally, I can’t hold the ‘it is what it is’ until I’ve built that directly as myself. Until I’m grounded clear in any reaction my body might go through.

If you’re not noticing yourself in all things, you’ll fool yourself believing nothing is affecting you.

An open state is aware and clear and knows exactly what affects them.

So it’s not about tricking yourself, it’s simply about noticing yourself.

Empathic/ healer types tend to take on others, not always consciously, but often it’s a trait that can create unnecessary baggage or repression of one’s own stuff. Tending outwardly but not dealing directly with what is as it is in them.

The balance of giving and receiving lays within yourself as ‘you’ as balance.

[God-Like]

Originally Posted by Patrycia-Rose

I believe it’s fairly well known that an energy / spiritual healer can take on a client’s emotions. Has anyone experienced this and any ideas on how to stop this from happening.

It depends on the healer. It's no secret that when a healer opens up and blends with another when giving healing all sorts of feelings can be experienced that relates to the other person.

Lots of healers including myself at times can feel what is wrong with a person and do experience pain in the body for example that reflects the patients pain or at the very least feel a particular energy centre that requires attention.

When the question relates to another's emotion then the same applies.


x daz x