Sorry lostsoul13 - I've no idea what happens when we die. I don't recall dying or being dead. Honestly - you seem to know a lot more about the process of dying than I do.
A lot of people on SF seem to know what happens when we die. I'm surprised none of them have posted. Castaneda suggested that most folks' "identity" merges back into a big pool and gets lost, but with sufficient "awareness" you could "fly past the eagle". Of course, no one believes Castaneda. It's an open question if even he believed it.
What do you mean by suspended animation? Do you just mean waiting to reincarnate? Seems most here believe that waiting period to be a conscious time for us rather than an unconscious one in suspended animation. And how is being in suspended animation like burning in a fire? I don't understand.
I assume the body and "spirit" separate when we die. After all, the body stays here. I've seen that. Of course, I might be using the wrong word. People here have very specific definitions for words like spirit and soul, but you seem to use them interchangeably? Does either one, or both, die? And what does dying mean for them? Do they cease to exist? Transform? Stay the same? Is that what goes into suspended animation?
Sorry again - I'm rather clueless.