Why don't i dream about him?

[beherenow23]

I dream of mine all the time. They are deeply meaningful, lucid, astral. My dreams have confirmed a lot for me.!

Originally Posted by BeautifulLife

If they are on your mind not stop during the day wouldn't it be a blessing to NOT dream of them at night? Maybe you do dream of him yet its blocked from your memory after you wake up. A strange thing happened to me when I met my TF 6yrs ago. I either stopped dreaming or stopped remembering my dreams. My entire life I used to wake up and remember my dreams at least a few times a week but after meeting my TF my memory of dreaming stopped. In the past 6yrs I can count the number of dreams I remember on one hand.

That's me too!
Ever since I was a kid I could tell you everything in vivid detail about the dream I had the night before.
I could even catalog ones from different years. I literally remembered every single dream.
And now, since discovering all this...my TF and just the concept of a TF...
I don't remember any dreams really.
Not even when I first wake up.


You know it's so crazy when you're like me and you've been experiencing all this alone for two straight months and out of nowhere you find this forum and group of people that experience the EXACT same stuff.

So it can't be made up. That's something I'm struggling with because mine isn't exactly...alive.
But my friends are starting to notice it too.

Originally Posted by jupitorarizona

I never dream of mine.

I believe, or have been told, that the less we dream of them, the more soul-time we share with them.

This thread has been very helpful. I've been wondering the same thing myself - how come in the past four months, I do not dream of my TF anymore, when I used to see him in my dreams every week or so.

And I did wonder: is it because I am connecting with him (don't know all the spirituality lingo) on a more conscious level in my "awake" life?

And by what i've been reading here, it sounds like that is very possible. Phew! Good!

[scoobawater]

I had a very intense, vivid, soul-shaking dream about him shortly after we met two years ago, but since then he rarely shows up or its uneventful or unmemorable. That made me also question our connection - like, why isn't he in my dreams.. WHERE IS HE?? So I tried to not think about it.

Recently, however, I've been trying to distance myself from TF and have been having more conversations with myself (or, some would say, telepathically with TF?) about why I think we just should have no contact, and the other night I dreampt of him texting me "Are you done yet?" lol

That little dream detail kinda reaffirmed the connection for me and it was a nice reassurance, but the road is still so long and rocky. e.g I texted him today since I feel we need to reconnect and he has yet to reply, which is unusual for him, so......