Fully allowing everything to be as it is, simply means you build a deeper embodied loving expression as yourself.
It’s not about what the other is being and doing.
Your embodied expression understands. You don’t take things personally, because you understand the impersonal and personal aspects in yourself more clear.
Sore feelings with a mind contained will always keep reacting.
If you build understanding in you as an awareness of suffering in all beings and how it plays out, you’ll understand.
If you harbour resentments around certain streams of life that you believe should be different, you will react and create more suffering for you and infiltrate the world around you unnecessarily.
Understanding builds acceptance and openness. Personal responsibility for how you feel and see regardless of what is, builds determination and willingness to move past hurts. So you yourself build the bridge, even if it’s not crossed by another, or they choose not to meet you there.
__________________
Free from all thought of “I” and “mine”, that man finds utter peace. ~Bhagavad Gita
|