Is there a rule I could/should follow?

Thank you all very much, great advice =)

There's something else I too wonder about, and that has always held me in conflict if to say something or not, and that is in romantic relationship, and when it gets personal. I have blamed female intuition, subcounscious (noticing things, that then surface and make a whole), but each serious romantic relationship I have been in - they have noticed. I used to shy away and not explain myself. I was in a relationship accused of being a lyer just because I was right about something but the guy did not buy how I found out, that was something personal and at first I did not know what to say but I was badly effected by it and then I said what I said - and it got huge and I don't think he trusted me after that, even if I was the one to feel bad about it, he didn't really care.He would later take me to this spiritual place as if watching me but I did not know if he was making fun or not of me but told me he would buy me anything I wanted but I was not interested and politely declined and left.