What does it mean to love? To love .... - Page 98

Gem · #**971** 28-12-2011, 10:20 AM

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Originally Posted by hybrid

Lights radiates outward in all directions and all these outward radiations coming from all directions converge to form a singularity.

outward ay? I usually consider light doesn't move in the same sense as objects move relative to eachother, in fact it doesn't, it just has the probability of arriving at some electron, which is pointlike, not volumous.

Still, some electron on a star emits the photon and it enlivens some electron in my retina, which I do not actually perceive, I perceive a subjective experience of a universe out there, the expance of which extends in all directions leaving me at the centre, but no more so than any other observer... so I find no reason for vanity.

It's a matter of refering to the body as me really I think, and where objects lay in relation to the body, or in a dream the dream man, who I mostly never see.

#**972** 28-12-2011, 10:32 AM

Greetings..

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Originally Posted by hybrid

you justify your reasons by quoting an an insult?

shrug.

LOL.. That was not an insult, it is an observation.. but, if you need to play it as an insult to suit your agenda, please continue..

The Universe is infinite, and as such any place in it is justifiably its 'center', and no place in it is its center.. and both conditions are accurate.

Your need to make me 'wrong' is evidence of your search for your own 'center'.. why not evaluate the substance of my posts and the relationship of those posts with reality?

Be well..

#**973** 28-12-2011, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by 3dnow

Accepting that the person hates you.. and letting go resistance to this reality without jugding.

Yes. The non judgement being an expression of loving them instead of feeling their hate, being affected by it and retaliating or recoiling from it.
For me, as described in my Unoffendable OP, I see beyond the surface hate and see a valuable person worthy of loving.

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Originally Posted by Gem

I find so many of these notions generalized and naive, but I'm glad about that innocence.

If it's generaized and naive to you Gem, then that's what they are to you.
Does not mean this is how others experience them.

#**974** 28-12-2011, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Alternate Carpark

Yes. The non judgement being an expression of loving them instead of feeling their hate, being affected by it and retaliating or recoiling from it.
For me, as described in my Unoffendable OP, I see beyond the surface hate and see a valuable person worthy of loving

I prefer feeling their hate and watching without putting any emotion..

Refusing to see the surface hate and seeing the valuable person worthy of loving, is judgment.

3d

Gem · #**975** 28-12-2011, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Alternate Carpark

Yes. The non judgement being an expression of loving them instead of feeling their hate, being affected by it and retaliating or recoiling from it.
For me, as described in my Unoffendable OP, I see beyond the surface hate and see a valuable person worthy of loving.

If it's generaized and naive to you Gem, then that's what they are to you.
Does not mean this is how others experience them.

that's true, and it's something I'm happy about.

Gem · #**976** 28-12-2011, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by 3dnow

I prefer feeling their hate and watching without putting any emotion..

Refusing to see the surface hate and seeing the valuable person worthy of loving, is judgment.

3d

I can't remember AC saying he judges anyone, and I think it's fair to say everyone is worthy of love, despite their belief to the contrary.

(Not that I love everyone or anything like that.)

sound · #**977** 28-12-2011, 10:58 AM

AC didnt say he refuses to see the surface hate ... he said he sees beyond it ...

sound · #**978** 28-12-2011, 11:02 AM

One last comment Hybrid ... that sucks ... it has left such a bad taste in my mouth ... thanks a lot

Gem · #**979** 28-12-2011, 11:12 AM

I like this. It's where love becomes more than a spiritual truism and shows there's no point in trying to be loving... and it's ok to wanna just slap someone! Personally I feel like slapping the preachers of 'true love', but they all went away. LoL.

#**980** 28-12-2011, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Gem

I can't remember AC saying he judges anyone, and I think it's fair to say everyone is worthy of love, despite their belief to the contrary.

(Not that I love everyone or anything like that.)

I don't say everyone is worthy of love... What kind of love is it that I "deserve"?

I say anger/judgment is useless.

3d