what are men attracted to in women

LoL...Well I can't say my hair is 'dark', nor my eyes...although both are brown. *laughs*

Actually with regards to the CFS - that's kind of what I am doing in my own peculiar sort of way. I found the essences, essential oils, homeopathy, and crystal therapy the most helpful. I do use Ashwagandha to help me sleep better, take Dandelion for detox, and a little Eleuthero/Siberian Ginseng here and there...but for me it is definitely due to stress (mental-emotional-spiritual). I think the soul exchange has been a 'catalyst' in helping it heal...despite the first few years being quite rough.

[SeaZen]

An independent, confident woman who is a tigress in the bedroom. One whose eyes are on fire with desire and a smile that is as sexually hungry as it is seductive. One who will ravish you to the point of you wanting to sensually and erotically worship her godess like femininity with all of your faculties and being for hours on end until we both explode in a mutual orgasmic frenzy of oneness.

Of course, I wouldnt expect her to be like this all the time but, but its definitely a quality I find attractive and would like to see a woman express once in a while to keep things interesting and lively! There are, of course, many other qualities I am attracted to in a women as I am not one dimensional, but for some reason this one happen to come to mind.

P.S. I hope this passes the forum rules as I didnt mention any x rated graphic body parts in my illustration

[Silver]

Cigarette?

LoL SeaZen.

I wouldn't mind that myself if it weren't for my CFS. I'm more of the nurturing type - I'd by far prefer a massage and a tub soak together. *smile*

To keep things interesting...shopping together at an antique store! That's fun!

[SeaZen]

Originally Posted by Silvergirl

Cigarette?

I dont think I would have the energy to stand up, let alone reach for a cigarette after that one!

[SeaZen]

Originally Posted by Kapitan_Prien

LoL SeaZen.

I wouldn't mind that myself if it weren't for my CFS.

LOL! I think I can safely say that all of us guys would love that once in a while Kap!

I'm more of the nurturing type - I'd by far prefer a massage and a tub soak together. *smile*

The hot tub and massage thing is also a great experience Kap! I think the key is a variety of experiences with each partner exploring and experiencing different roles and feelings each time

It's been very interesting reading what men want... educational in more ways than one! How do you feel about broadening this thread to include what women want as well? Make it a little more balanced and get both sides of the coin? I know what I want in a man, but I'd be curious to know what other women seek in theirs

[SeaZen]

Originally Posted by LightFilledHeart

It's been very interesting reading what men want... educational in more ways than one! How do you feel about broadening this thread to include what women want as well? Make it a little more balanced and get both sides of the coin? I know what I want in a man, but I'd be curious to know what other women seek in theirs

A great idea, however, why not start a separate thread on what women want? I mean, we do have the space for it and this way we (us guys) can focus exclusively on what our lovely, sensual, sexy godessess desire!

Maybe later, we can put it all together in a super thread of ectastic joy and reconciliation!

I agree with SeaZen - it should be in a thread of it's own. *smile*

Gentlemen,

I realise that none of you can answer on behalf of every man any more than I can answer on behalf of every woman ... but here goes, anyway.

John said [paraphrasing] that all men want to be loved unconditionally, and SeaZen indicated that men don’t mind being seduced occasionally...

So here are my questions.


1. How is a woman supposed to respond when a man asks her repeatedly if she is in love with him, and then seems annoyed and disbelieving when she finally admits that yes, she is in love with him?
2. How is a woman supposed to respond to a man who is clearly [physically] attracted to her, when she attempts to seduce him and yet at a certain point, he rejects her?

Any insight would be very deeply appreciated, because I’m at the point of waving a white flag and walking away before I get hurt any more.


White Wolf.