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Old 16-10-2011, 07:51 PM
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yeah its so true and so necessary for the "real " love. the love thats not based on lust or selfish wants and needs. Me and my twinflame have managed to erase the ego and the negativity by following it.
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Old 17-10-2011, 07:09 PM
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Great thread thanks.
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Old 21-10-2011, 03:12 AM
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I love this. Thank you for posting Xan :)
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Old 21-10-2011, 03:41 AM
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I think people like the theory... but 'be in it' is what I always say
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Old 21-10-2011, 03:44 AM
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'Be in it' is perfect advice.


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Old 22-10-2011, 09:48 PM
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Lovely thread, thanks Xan :)
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Old 22-10-2011, 11:10 PM
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This has really moved me, I was definitely supposed to read that tonight. Such simple words have made me realise many things about my own relationship, right now - this very evening I have been feeling very insecure - I have pretty much fallen wildly in love with a man I believe could be my soulmate, but has just returned to university as a mature student, quite some distance from me. I trust him in terms of fidelity, my insecurities are rooted more in whether a relationship with the distance and lifestyle barriers can survive. This post has made me re-evaluate a lot of things, and has led me to realise how we can move forward. Thank you so much!
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Old 22-10-2011, 11:49 PM
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I'm glad to hear it's helped you, hesi.


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Old 22-10-2011, 11:58 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Xan
This is from an old post by avalok:


Romantic Love, Spiritual Love


Romantic love is possessive.
Spiritual love is undemanding.

Romantic lovers cannot bear to be separated.
Spiritual lovers remain connected.

Romantic love is passionate.
Spiritual love is compassionate.

Romantic lover craves for physical contact.
Spiritual lover is always in touch.

Romantic love is bondage.
Spiritual love is freedom.

Romantic love tends to die over time.
Spiritual love grows over time.

Romantic love is about youth and attraction.
Spiritual love is about maturity and acceptance.

Romantic lover is always demanding attention.
Spiritual lover is always giving affection.

Romantic lover is looking for a soul mate.
Spiritual lover finds the oversoul in his mate.

Romantic love sweeps on off one’s feet.
Spiritual love takes one to a higher plane.

Romantic lovers dream of everlasting love.
Spiritual lovers realize everlasting harmony.


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This is beautiful Xan. Thank you for sharing this with all of us
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Old 23-10-2011, 01:36 AM
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One guy says romantic love is this and that and the other thing, but that's just a notion, it doesn't mean what he says is true. I read it and find so little meaning as it has so little bearing on my actual direct experience of relationship.

If love you love someone just love them, because it will never fit a paradigm like the list in the OP, and never take notice of anything besides the actual experienced feelings you have and share.

Beautiful? What is that? Something that feels sentimental? It's nothing compared to the feelings involved in your relationship.

When I say 'be in it' I mean just be in love, because this list of definitions is so shallow in light of the depth of your actual feelings.
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