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Old 27-11-2022, 07:32 PM
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How to heal?

How to accept myself
How to surrender
Accept that i am not Perfect and still am worth of love. How the hell one do this???!!!! When you are nothing else but helpless awkward and poor coward? And this IS the truth about you!! And while writing it I still am able to feel love to myself and kind od Acceptance. What to do to stop wanting to change myself and be better???!!!
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Sometimes i feel so much love that im almost exploding. I want to be love and give love. I feel it a lot but kind of, like, there are tames that just block it!!
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Old 30-11-2022, 06:41 PM
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I think regards to reincarnation I’m a coward, but in fact when it happens there’s no escaping it so I just pull through so my self esteem saying I’m coward is only half the truth- I may feel cowardly before I go through death but while it’s happening there’s nothing but to feel the escape of feeling’s including cowardly…

But the fact is of the matter I actually sit through it at times locked in with no escaping death.. none can escape it.. I just try dwell on the idea of actually I make it through.. there’s no point in starting fights ect in those days I’m a muscular guy - short but we’ll built.. I can stand up for my self but I’d rather take the low road..

The only thing cowardly is thinking you’re a coward!!!

Self love takes life times, I wouldn’t be so hard on your self!! It takes years to accept who you are what you have or haven’t accomplished…

What’s important- you’re building the foundation of that critical journey!!!
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Old 01-12-2022, 05:10 AM
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Is loving everyone making my love less valuable?
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Old 01-12-2022, 02:31 PM
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Healing is a personal journey. Perhaps each of us has to follow a path that suits us. One path may not work for all. Best of luck to you.
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Old 03-12-2022, 03:05 AM
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Love is the healing energy, just focus on loving wholeheartedly and in time you'll see results/change.

It won't happen overnight but things will get better with persistence.
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Old 04-12-2022, 08:19 PM
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Thank you.
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Old 04-12-2022, 09:40 PM
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. I feel it a lot but kind of, like, there are tames that just block it!!
I first have to ask what are tames.

You wanna know how to love yourself --use your logic as a stepping stone.
Logically, think: I am the creation (son or daughter) of a King ..the ONE Spiritual Being that created everything.
And as a Father /Mother Creator He adores me ...and wants the best for me.


As the son of a King --what would that make me?
A Prince.
With all the privileges of a son/ Prince.

Does that sound odd? Maybe.
I would say ...only cuz no one ever explained to you your place in the World...in the Universe.

Have you ever loved anything? A puppy, a baby, a nephew, a partner?
Didn't you love them no matter what ?
They could be covered in mud or painters overalls....makes no diff...you just love them as is.
Well, that is exactly like our 'Father' - Creator ....by any name.

Realize this deeply and half your blocks are gone...Walk tall and proud as a prince that is adored....even when sweaty and a mess.

Anything that says anything else is the enemy and must be ignored.
My formula.
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Old 06-12-2022, 05:22 AM
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Love that quote Lamb.

I’m big fan of Rumi.
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Old 06-12-2022, 08:05 PM
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I'm in the middle of a mental hell, i swear
Thank you for being here
Yes, Rumi is beautiful
Will try to find in myself this what used to be burning while reading him
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Old 23-12-2022, 12:49 AM
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Is loving everyone making my love less valuable?



That depends on if your love is free flowing, and is love in itself, or of a love that needs something to be. IE, trying to fill a hole within yourself with wanting to be loved by others, in the hope that it makes you feel loved.


If this is what you feel about yourself



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When you are nothing else but helpless awkward and poor coward? And this IS the truth about you!!


Then yes, you would be trying to project love onto others to feel better about yourself. Start with truly loving you, all of you, who you are. Regardless of who or what you think you are, or have been told about yourself. Before you focus your energy trying to love everyone else to make up for not being able to see your own love in you.

If you see yourself as awkward, and a coward, these are harsh judgments you have placed upon yourself, or have been given. They don't serve you, anymore. Let them go. The quote in your signature explains this as well, and I didn't even see that quote before I said this. It seems that is the message spirit wants you to know and see.
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