To tell or not to tell.......that is my question

I kind of know how you feel - maybe my own story will give you an idea!
Six months ago I was ready to split up with my fiance, for many reasons. I confided to a man I work with that I was considering this (he had been through a split, too, so I wanted the opinion of someone who had already been there/done that...)
Anyway, this man and I had gotten close as co-workers, and I always thought he was a great guy, but he had never shown me any signs of being interested. When I confided in him I was ready to split with my fiance, I commented that I wasn't looking forward to being alone again, since guys had never exactly been knocking down my door to go out with me! All of a sudden, this man responds that HE would be knocking on my door; he had just never wanted to let on, since he knew I was engaged, and he didn't want things to get complicated....
This both amazed and thrilled me....needless to say, my fiance is gone, this other man and I have been together ever since, and he is the love of my life! Hope this helps :)