To tell or not to tell.......that is my question

Greetings friends. I am in love with a man in my life. I do not know if he feels the same way. At times I thought I picked up vibes that he did have feelings for me that went beyond friendship, and also he has said a couple one line remarks here and there that temporarily convinced me that the feelings were mutual. But then....nothing. Nothing has come of it but my feelings are intensifying. I have been holding on to those few 1 liners and nuances that once gave me hope.

This man has been somewhat of a spiritual teacher and friend to my children and I over the past year. He is currently working with my daughter with "special needs" and has also worked with me. He is an energy worker/psychic. We started out with strictly a healer/client relationship but became friends over the year. The children and I made a trip out of state to visit him 3 times over this summer. He is coming to spend a few days with us next month. Most other interactions are over the phone/skype.

Now that I have given background info....I am trying to decide whether to share my feelings with him or not. He is really big on speaking ones truth. I do not want to do anything that would impact the work he is currently doing around my daughter's needs, so I have kept quiet. At the same time, I do not want to allow myself to hope, dream, and visualize all the time falling deeper and deeper for this guy only to be hurt deeply. I want to know. Even if the answer is not what I hope, at least then I can know where I stand, heal, and eventually move on.

So what do you think? I would love to get feedback. Thank you much!